ATTRACT THOUGHTS
How to attract a man with thoughts at a distance - every person dreams of meeting in his life real love and that this love is mutual. The theme of love is especially important for a woman. Love for a woman is more important than a career, more important than new experiences, more important than wealth.
After all, this is how nature created a woman.
But not always men pay attention to really worthy women who are in love with them. What, then, should a woman do if she does not want to seem obsessive to the object of her adoration? Is it possible to attract a man only by the power of thought?
Which girl will be easier to attract a man from a distance?
Let's say a girl likes some guy, and she thinks that she is ready for anything for him. She puts on the most beautiful clothes, if there is a chance to meet her beloved, she perfumes herself with the most best perfume and does her hair in an expensive salon.
But the guy does not think to pay his attention to this girl. Maybe something else is important to him? Or expression "ready to do anything" implies completely different actions? Now let's try to figure this out.
It's no secret that everyone is attracted to people who give off positive energy. This kind of energy feeds everyone around. And vice versa - a person is gloomy, suspicious, prone to whining and conflicts, subconsciously "vampire" that is, it takes energy from other people. Everyone tries to stay away from such a person.
If the girl is wearing even the most Nice dress, the guy will not want to meet her if she gives off negative energy. And a cheerful, friendly, optimistic girl will always have many admirers, among whom, with very little effort on her part, her beloved may turn out to be. Moreover, it is absolutely not necessary for him to be convinced of this personally.
The folk proverb says: "The Earth is full of hearing." That is, the fame of your good and bad deeds can always reach your boyfriend, even if you have not met for a long time. But just doing good deeds is not enough if there is nothing behind them, except for the desire to attract attention to yourself. Sometimes a girl, in order to please a guy, needs to change her whole system of thinking, stop putting her interests in the center of the universe and think, what does the guy want? What are his interests, plans, dreams?
A girl who knows how to attract a guy from a distance will be much easier.
There are several time-tested techniques that allow you to attract the object of our love. One has only to warn that you should do all this only when you are convinced that you really need a person, that you have not a fleeting attraction to him, but a real feeling.
1. Take a comfortable position for you, lying or sitting in a chair. Close your eyes and imagine your loved one. Now imagine that there is an energy bridge between you. imagine your love as a radiant substance, which, like a powerful wave, strives towards the beloved along the bridge.
2. Engage visualization. Imagine what the man of your dreams is doing now. Now imagine that he remembered you. Here he comes to the phone, picks up the phone, dials a number ... You hear a call - this is your loved one calling you. It seems like a miracle, but such a technique, after persistent repetitions, really often works!
3. If you meet your loved one at a party or on the street, imagine that a stream of light has formed between your heads. It should be directed between the guy's eyebrows, just in the place where they usually draw "third Eye". At the same time, repeat an affirmation to yourself like: “You remember me all the time,” "you feel growing sympathy for me" Of course, this must be done discreetly so as not to seem strange to others.
4. If your loved one is far away, you can mail them or pass them through a familiar item, such as a key chain or a fountain pen or diary. The main thing is that this item is practical and in his taste, then the chance that the guy will use it will increase. The guy should know that it was you who handed over the item. Before you send this gift, squeeze it in your fist and try to charge it with your energy. Now your loved one, using your gift, will constantly remember you and feel your warmth.
5. You can connect the subconscious to the process using the so-called method "anchors". Create an “anchor” in the subconscious of your beloved, which can be anything - a nightly wish « Good night»
, or any other unobtrusive but regular reminder of yourself. The main thing is that a reminder, at least in the form of a simple smile, should be really daily, at the same time. In this case, if suddenly the reminder stops, the person feels discomfort and begins to think about you, wonder where you have gone and feel a desire to meet.
6. If you don't yet know the guy you like a lot, but you have mutual friends, ask these people to periodically mention you in a conversation, pointing out your positive qualities. Then, almost certainly, the object of your adoration will ask you to introduce yourself.
And most importantly, just think about it more often. Our thoughts are material, and believe me, if you think about someone, this person, sooner or later, will definitely feel it and appreciate your devotion!
What Not to Do
Among women of all ages and peoples, a variety of "love spells".
Love spells are different - from mysterious conspiracies that must be read, most often at midnight in a cemetery, to pulling hairs from a loved one or burying a chicken foot under the threshold.
All this nonsense in a normal modern man usually causes laughter.
But girls who are obsessed with sympathy for some guy sometimes really use such exoticism.
It is absolutely impossible to do this.
At best, these actions are useless. At worst, they are dangerous, as they border on black magic. In very rare cases, it is really possible to bewitch a loved one, but over time, the girl herself begins to regret it, since her boyfriend, being next to her, begins to wither, get sick, even sometimes dies.
Such frivolity can hit the girl herself.
Also, don't be too pushy. In attracting a loved one, as in all other matters, the main thing is not to overdo it.
If you keep sending a guy "charged" gifts, call him with the wishes of good morning, good day, wonderful evening and good night, he will most likely consider you not a completely adequate person, and all these actions will lead to the opposite result.
It would be much more correct to maintain dignity, and try to remind yourself in moderation. Men don't like obsessive women.
Every woman is a bit of a hunter. And every man is a bit of prey. The difference is that often the prey itself wants to be caught. Share with us your secrets of successful hunting! We are waiting for messages not only from women, but also from men. After all, happy mutual love want absolutely all people on Earth. Let's try to make it bigger!
As a rule, with unrequited love, a person in love dreams that the object of his feelings also experiences something similar. Therefore, the question arises - how to make someone you love think only of you. This can be achieved in many ways: psychological, magical, etc. In this article, we will talk about the different ways in which you can make a person think about you, and you yourself will choose the one that is more suitable for your situation.
If we consider psychological methods, they can be divided into direct and indirect.
A direct way to manipulate a person is to actively contact the right person for some time, constantly flicker before his eyes, and then abruptly cut off any contact. Naturally, a person will begin to think about you, because he will miss your usual manifestations in his life.
Here the simplest example, how it works. Let's say you work next to some person, and every morning you greet him. If you suddenly begin to ignore this person, stop greeting him every morning, then he will, against his will, begin to remember you and think why you suddenly stopped greeting him.
The question arises, is it possible to apply this method in the case when you do not have the opportunity to constantly flash before the eyes of the right person and contact with him? In this case, the problem is solved using indirect manipulation methods.
To bring this plan to life, you will need a faithful assistant who communicates with your object of passion and can contact him. Ask this person to occasionally use your name when talking to the right person. Moreover, he must submit information about you in such a way that the person you need is interested in you. It is best if you will be connected by work connections, the same hobbies or hobbies. In this case, you will definitely provide him with constant thoughts about you, which will eventually lead to closer contact and acquaintance.
The next way to make a loved one think only of you is mental suggestion. This method is on the border of magic and psychology, since mental suggestion is a kind of hypnosis or direct suggestion of thoughts at a distance. We have talked about this method more than once on the pages of our site. Briefly recall the essence of this method.
Firstly, this method is suitable if you have the opportunity to personally contact your loved one. Being in the same room with the object of influence, or at least seeing him in the field of view, you need to concentrate and begin to mentally transmit to him a short phrase-suggestion. Think over the phrase in advance, it can be “You love me”, “you are interested in me”, etc.
While mentally pronouncing your command phrase, imagine how a blue beam connects your forehead and the back of your head or the forehead of the right person. Through this imaginary channel, clearly and confidently transmit your phrase and image (or only the phrase) directly into his head.
The following method will help solve the problem of how to make a loved one only about you if you rarely see each other. This method is somewhat similar to the “how to return a loved one with the power of thought” method, but in any case, you must be familiar with your object of adoration (he must know you). Otherwise, he simply will not connect the image of a person that arises in him (your image) with anyone, and there will be no sense from this method.
Since this method belongs to mental magic, you must first learn to focus, to concentrate. You also need to have a developed imagination.
Perform the exercise in the evening or at night (so that the object of influence is already asleep at this time). If you find it difficult to remember and focus on the image of a loved one, then use his photo. Relax, and focus on the image of the right person.
When the image of a loved one becomes bright and distinct, imagine that you have entered into it, joined your heads together. Sometimes, at this moment, you can hear the thoughts and feelings of this person, understand what or whom he thinks about, what he feels, what emotions he experiences.
Now you need to imagine that you are starting to think with this person's head. Begin to inspire him with your image, memories of you, give him short mental phrases-orders. Such exercises should be performed every evening for at least a month. In principle, everything will depend on how closely you know each other, and how soon the person will understand who he is thinking about.
For those people who have access to astral travel, a more complex and more effective way how to make your loved one think about you. This method is the penetration into the dream of the right person. If a person dreams every day, then he will undoubtedly begin to think about you, and perhaps be the first to make contact. After all, he will become interested in why you began to dream of him.
Of course, there are other ways (special rites, conspiracies and rituals) with which you can dream the right person. You can try to use them, but there is no guarantee that you will dream of the right person every day.
You may have met an interesting young man. And between you there was an exchange of phone numbers. But the long-awaited call is still missing. Scrolling through your conversation, remembering his look full of sympathy and hope, you are trying to understand - was it just an emotional outburst on the part of the guy?
Or does he still have good reasons for not talking to you on the phone. But at an early stage of dating between a girl and a young man, telephone communication is very important point. This is necessary at least for the next meeting to take place.
Elementary, on the very evening when he got your number, the young man was liberated under the influence of an alcoholic drink. But the next day, confidence left him. Yes, it happens. The strong half of humanity is also subject to fears and doubts. The reason may be an unfortunate accident - I missed one digit in your phone number. Accidentally erased it. Or did not indicate the name of the subscriber. Everything happens in this life!
Or the reason for the lack of a call from the man is unexpected events: an urgent departure, problems with relatives, and finally, his illness. After all, you barely know each other, and you cannot know about his lifestyle.
What to do when he doesn't call?
The answer suggests itself - call him yourself! Are you shy? Can't get over your pride? Send SMS something like this: "I still remember your smile from that very party."
And if there is some holiday ahead, then you can jokingly congratulate him. Adequate man will dial your number himself. Even if he did not quite understand who was giving him such signs of attention, then curiosity would be stronger. Did text messages help?
Well ... Who gave birth to the idea that a girl should not call first? After all, you are a representative of the most beautiful half of humanity, which is subject to a lot! So, you dialed a number and heard a man's voice.
Perhaps all the words that I intended to say may be lost from excitement. Do not be nervous, say the usual: "Hi. What are you doing?". Listen to his answers later.
By intonation, it will be easy for you to understand the mood of your partner. If he happily gets excited, trying to justify himself, you are on the right track! But beware if a young man your attention take it for granted. Maybe he is one of those who do not consider it necessary to take the initiative in dealing with a girl and believes that "everything should come by itself."
Remember the saying of one wise philosopher: “Take one step towards a man, and no more. Otherwise, for the rest of your life you will be doomed to walk for him and for yourself.
Finally, one more circumstance - you realized that your partner has no desire to communicate. But you don’t always have to give up! Especially if the man really impressed you.
How to make a man think about you?
Dear reader, you have set yourself a difficult task, but quite real. And if you do not get too hung up on the end result, then you may plunge into an interesting adventure and gain invaluable experience. Just think about what you know about a new acquaintance.
The lack of information about him can be replenished from social networks. Believe that a person's profile in the virtual world can say a lot about him. Starting from the status, photo of the owner and his ratings of various publications.
From them you will learn about personal qualities young man, his employment in society, hobbies and even what kind of girls he likes. If a man is not a supporter of revealing himself in the virtual world, then connect your friends.
After all, if you live with him territorially in the same area, then there will certainly be common friends. We know that the older we get, the more more interesting personality who have similar hobbies.
Of course, people with different mindsets are also attracted. But the presence of common interests, external correspondences contribute more to the interest of partners in each other.
What does a man think of a woman when he sees her for the first time?
Before you get a certain man to think about you, let's look from the outside at his reaction when meeting. Wherever you meet (a club, a party, a production conference, a circle of relatives), the process of evaluating each other automatically starts in the first minutes.
It can happen not purposefully, but unconsciously. What is the representative of the male half thinking about at this moment, looking at you? The first is appearance. Psychologists note that it is the proportionality of the female physique that is most often evaluated.
Facial expression is also given special meaning. Therefore, dear reader, you do not have to have the most beautiful features at all, but you can learn to control your emotions. Remember that a pleasant face, illuminated by a smile, involuntarily prompts a man about the thought of kissing you.
Pay attention to your ability to dress. Connoisseurs will note stylish clothes, which is applied to the place and focuses on beautiful places figures. Avoid excessive stiffness or frankness in your wardrobe. Bring something deeply personal to your style. For example, a catchy chain with an amulet adorning your neck or an interesting belt around your waist.
In parallel with this, the male brain fixes your ability to communicate. A sense of humor is always welcome! But if you are not a great joker, then it is better not to experiment. When communicating with a man, do not touch on narrow incomprehensible topics. Sometimes conversations about "nothing" are better than abstruse complex conversation.
By the way, learn to find a balance - that is, do not be silent for too long, but do not speak incessantly. Send emotional signals with your body language. For example, there is real story when a woman with one gait made a man think about her for a long time. An innocent phrase on your part about his good looks, such as: “I haven’t seen such deep eyes for a long time” can also play into the hands.
Information Possession
If the meeting when meeting was not so successful, then try to make the second one take place. Perhaps the partner did not have time to consider all the advantages, or you were not sufficiently aware of his addictions. And now it's time to adjust your style and behavior.
By this time, according to friends or thanks to the support of the Internet, you already know what type of girl he is interested in and what he is passionate about on Sunday evenings. Try to understand that in this topic we do not call you to manipulation or deceit.
Interest in a certain man, and perhaps a review of some of your habits and addictions, may be exactly what you need in the first place. Be warned that appearing to be someone you are not is a difficult role. The deception will eventually be revealed and it will be unpleasant for both!
Therefore, if a young man is attracted to girls with a “business woman” warehouse and with the same opportunities, and you know for sure that this will not happen, do not get involved in such games.
In the desire to make a man think about himself - do not overplay
If a man is passionate about mysticism, do not pretend that you understand esotericism and have the ability to "disperse the clouds." After all, it is not known what can happen when a guy decides that you were sent to him. Higher power and you will go to an old abandoned haunted house.
Of course, this is the share of good-natured humor. But you still have to take into account some points. Having learned that your new acquaintance likes to experiment with recipes, do not rush to tell him that the great craftswoman is in this business. And if you boasted, immediately practice at home in the kitchen!
Does a man love fast motorcycle riding and a fan of car travel? Do not mislead him that you have also been “driving” a car for a long time. In a conversation with him, it can be noted that you dream of traveling and would like to learn driving skills from an experienced person.
A little about pitfalls
Note that there are many cases when a girl, when meeting, meets all the criteria by which a man evaluates her. But as a result, the cute object not only does not call her and does not mentally get hung up, but also asks other questions.
For example, he may think, “We are too similar to her. Everything is predictable." Or, “She's just perfect. So helpful, perfect. Can I get to her level? Finally, a young man may set out to find a partner from a different social circle, with a different worldview than his. And then, any of our readers will be bewildered and disappointed.
A man conquers individuality
How to make a man think about you. Develop and be yourself
It is important for every girl / woman, regardless of age, to have her own personal space. What can it be filled with? What you like, dear reader: dancing, sports, fishing, fitness, singing, painting, climbing.
Psychologists emphasize that the mind of a man is most often occupied by bright personalities with erudition. And the higher the intelligence of a young man, the more he pays attention to this feature. Own the knowledge of your hobby, tell others about them and learn something new!
It is through exciting activities that members of opposite sexes often find each other. In this situation, it will not be difficult for a girl to arouse interest in herself and keep it for a long time. It is important to remember that no matter how acute the desire to capture male attention is, “you won’t be forced to be nice.”
It is best if the processes of recognizing each other take place naturally, by mutual agreement. Always remember that every person is different. Develop, emphasize your peculiarity, making your energy interesting and sexy.
A woman is naturally given a "sixth sense". If there is a feeling that “your” person has met, help him a little at first. In any case, dear reader, I want to believe that working on yourself will help you avoid such questions: “How to get a guy to call?” or “What to do to make a man think about you?”.
Psychologists say that a woman has more natural flexibility. By changing itself, it is able to influence the events around it. The girl's ability to observe golden mean» great way learn the art of communicating with a partner.
Of course, the easiest way is to flood him with romantic messages, but the effect that you will achieve with this will turn out to be exactly the opposite: you need to work thinner. So forget about frequent calls, SMS and constant spending time together. Let a man feel free and not soul him with your love ahead of time. Don't be jealous of his friends. Every man should be able to get away for a day or two. Not to the left! And go fishing, to the cottage with friends, to the bath or just to your own world. Give him the opportunity to be alone with himself.
Rule two: slow down the rapid development of the novel
It's hard, we know. But this is a fail-safe method that our great-great-great-great-grandmothers used: if a man is not given what he wants, he will begin to achieve it. Or, at least, think about the object of your desire all the time. Another thing is that today, in the 21st century, it is hardly possible to marinate it for half a year, not allowing anything more than an innocent kiss on the cheek. Yes, actually, this is not necessary. All you have to do is not agree to everything he wants right now. Sometimes it gets sloppy, no big deal.
Rule three: use technology wisely
Just because we don't recommend you bombard it with messages doesn't mean you shouldn't use it at all. modern technologies: on the contrary, you can use them rarely, but aptly. Instead of sending him sad kittens and hearts every 2 hours, write a message like: “Waiting for you on Wednesday evening on Skype: it will be hot!” Until Wednesday, he will think about you and only you. Especially if today is Thursday. Another way to make him think about you is to show rather than tell. Especially if there will be no opportunity to meet in the near future (for example, you or he is on vacation). Send him selfies, but only, of course, not in the spirit of “I am smiling with all 48 teeth against the backdrop of the Eiffel Tower.” Let it be something with a hint. Sexy, naturally.
Rule Four: Infiltrate the enemy's camp
In war as in war - all means are good! So boldly pour into his inner circle and become your own person there. Make friends with his friends and try to charm them. Even better - help them with something, for example, recommend the best doctor in town to his friend. Or the best bar that few people know about (the bar is definitely more efficient). The goal is simple: other people should remind him of you, and remind him in a positive way: what a cool girl, don't miss her, bro!
Rule Five: Don't Feed His Ego
There is absolutely no point in constantly stroking his fur: if everything is even and smooth, there is absolutely no need for a man to think about you. You are useful, convenient and trouble-free, like a washing machine. And who, one asks, thinks about his washing machine even if she's also beautiful? That's right, no one. Therefore, do not forget to give him sensitive clicks on the nose in time. In a figurative sense, of course.
Rule six: don't try to be "different"
Before writing this article, we studied several online manuals on the topic "How to make a man bored" and everywhere we met the same advice: "Surprise him, be different!" And it seems to us that this is bad, worthless advice. First, what does “not like everyone else” mean? All women are different, which one should you not be? Secondly, this advice implies that you are, as it were, "like everyone else", and therefore he is bored with you. A little like an insult, don't you think? And thirdly, this advice means that you need to immediately change and start behaving unpredictably. Yes, of course, this is how you can make a man think about you. But what exactly to think - does it not matter? In general, we consider this advice unsuitable and give just the opposite: do not try to impress him by pretending to be a mysterious "not like that." Otherwise, he will start thinking not about you, but about that “not like that”. Do not multiply entities (including your own).
Rule Seven: Provoke
But it can and should be provoked. But it is better, of course, to play this game on the “bed” field: an unforgettable night is your friend in this case, but an unforgettable scandal is not a very smart move. Although he will certainly think about you. Obscene.
Rule Eight: Don't Overthink
In fact, it doesn't matter at all if he thinks about you when you're not together. Because it will either happen by itself when he falls in love seriously, or it will not happen at all - if this is not your option. And if you feel that he is really not your option, do not waste effort on him. Because suddenly he really becomes attached - and then what will you do with him?
How you want to fall in love with yourself and fall in love. Is there something in a woman's behavior that makes men fall in love with her? and think about a woman all the time. How does a man fall in love with a woman? Will he fall in love with the one he remembers once a week or less often? No. For a man to fall in love, he must constantly think about a woman. All his thoughts are focused on her. Even if he is busy with something important, thoughts still flow smoothly to a woman.
How to achieve this? Call, write, constantly flicker in his field of vision? Such behavior will cause irritation rather than romantic feelings. It is necessary to create a special atmosphere in which a man constantly dreams about a woman.
Women's secrets
To make a man rack his brains, you need to create intrigue. This is the cornerstone. Nothing will work without this. Intrigue is a powerful means of "falling in love" of a man, proven by years of experience of past generations. Any format will do: in correspondence, in plans for the next weekend or for the year. You can even tell him something like: “I got to the core of you! You're not really who you say you are!" Naturally, two questions immediately arise in his head, for whom I pretend to be and who I really am, which he will certainly voice. At this point, you need to gently evade the answer. Say that you are very busy right now and you will tell everything at the next meeting.
A man in the head at this moment there is a mini-explosion. He doesn't know what to think. And he starts thinking about a woman. What did she understand, when, why and what will happen now.
They say that a woman should be a mystery. It really is. You do not need to open your soul to a man from the first minutes. Leave hidden, dark corners. And if it so happened that from the very beginning it was not possible to maintain the intrigue, then “cover up” and move away at a respectful distance. Play with him like a cat with a mouse, now approaching, then moving away.
The second point is not to let a man get fed up. A woman should be a little missed. When a woman devotes all her time to a man, gives out maximum information about herself, her family and pet, a man eats it with pleasure if he is in love. But after a very short period of time, he gets fed up. Yes, he enjoyed communication, examined and tried a woman from different angles, satisfied his curiosity. And that is all. He doesn't need more.
And if you eat in small portions, then you want more and more. After a small piece, there is a feeling of hunger, slight dissatisfaction. And the man reaches for more. You need to learn how to slip away in time, disappear from his field of vision. To make him a little hungry and bored.
For example, let's simulate such a situation. Date, not the first, but one of the first. Perhaps the third or fourth. At the height of the evening, you are interested in each other, having fun, you absolutely do not want to interrupt communication and end the meeting. And suddenly the woman says: “Honey, I'm sorry, I have to leave. Urgent business… Everything was great! Thanks for a great evening!" And the woman leaves. What does the man feel at this moment? He is confused, he does not know what to think, how to react. The “Cinderella effect” works again. And he ends up spending the rest of the evening alone, replaying the events of the date in his head and constantly thinking about the woman.
The man is even more intrigued and completely entangled in the woman's networks.
It is clear that you want to stay with him, spend more time. But you need to get over yourself. Running away from him, a woman provokes a chase, a hunt. And a man, as you know, is a hunter by nature. And he is not interested in easy prey. The more he runs after a woman, the more he will appreciate her. And it is in the power of every woman to provoke this pursuit.
The problem of many women
One of the most common problems is this. A woman completely dissolves in the chosen one, gives him all of herself, her energy. A man at this moment is good and comfortable, but bored. Hence the lack of initiative. Gifts, courtship. Why should he strain, if the woman already belongs to him.
You can not concentrate on a man entirely. In life, there should be a place for other things: friends, work, hobbies, and so on. All these things are a lifeline from the pool. It is by holding on to them that a woman has a chance not to drown in love and not choke. There are many beautiful things in life besides relationships. And for them you need to hold on with all your might. Love sucks, but life should not revolve solely around this feeling.
We learn not to stick to a man and not to become dependent on him.
Always happy to help you become happier.
With love,
Irina Gavrilova Dempsey