Better friends women are not diamonds, but cunning and confidence. Self-confidence is the best weapon. You can be infinitely beautiful, but what's the point if you can't tame a man.
Let's not lie, all women want to tame a man so that he carries him in his arms, fulfills desires and whims. We don’t know what else women are waiting for, men have been manipulating women’s hearts for a long time and nothing, their conscience does not torment them. Psychologists speak directly and openly: it is more than easy to win the heart of a man, and any man can be tamed, knowing certain tricks. Here are 20 phrases that will help you become the most beloved, desired and only queen for your beloved.
1. You are a real man
For the representatives of the stronger sex, there is nothing more pleasant than their caressed ego. And the more you repeat this phrase, naturally to the point, the more you will fall in love with a man. Do not be afraid to remind your loved one that you love, appreciate and adore him completely and completely.
2. I'm so interested in you
Or are you so erudite, well-read, smart. Such words will amuse the pride of anyone, especially when it comes to your beloved man. But just do not need to be sarcastic and lie, the beloved must be sure of the sincerity of your words.
3. You made my day
And also "only you know how to make me happy." The man you are trying to manipulate here should become or at least feel like an integral part of your life. For men, it's simple. You love your life - he main character your play means you love him, and he loves you.
4. You rarely meet such an ambitious and determined man.
You can use different variations, ranging from "I thought all men died out, but they are not" to "I did not think that I would meet a real hero." It's sweet but very swipe over the ears, so make sure that your compliments look believable, and do not turn into cloying flattery.
5. We have not parted yet, but I already miss
Girls, with a man you need to behave boldly. Waiting for the first step is the lot of weak-willed women, with whom, as a rule, men do not linger for a long time. Take it and hint to your lover that you really want to meet him, and maybe even live. Just don’t stutter about the wedding ahead of time, otherwise it will beat off all his determination.
6. I like it when you are near me.
This phrase needs the right moment. We recommend that you say it when your loved one goes on a business trip, to his parents or somewhere else. This will help not only to tame him, but also to show that you are sad, bored and hard without him.
7. Only with you I understood what love is.
This phrase is aerobatics, so you need to pronounce it with caution, and preferably not in the first minutes of communication. The more exposure, the better. Most men don't like it when women force their feelings on them. Wait for the most opportune moment to speak such lofty words.
8. I feel safe with you.
Every man in his childhood dreamed of being a superhero. Having matured, many have accepted the harsh reality - the world is not so easy to save. But you have a chance to return hope to your beloved, and maybe even fulfill it. He will be pleased to feel like your hero.
9. You know how to make me laugh
You may not have known, but men sincerely believe that if a girl laughs at his jokes (especially stupid and ridiculous ones), then she is head over heels in love with him. Such an unobtrusive complement can be seen as a sincere declaration of love.
10. You are a part of my life
Everything is simple here - you need to talk about love carefully, the main thing is not to overdo it with confessions. A man himself must come to the conclusion: he loves you or not, it is pointless to impose feelings.
11. You are the first with whom I feel so good
This phrase is not to be feared. If you feel that the man of your dreams is in front of you, then do not hide it from him.
12. Why didn't we meet you earlier?
Tell the man that life before him was so gray, and then he burst in and turned everything upside down. However, if your knight is one of the reserved and straightforward men, such a phrase will not work. It is suitable only for crazy and inveterate romantics.
13. There are no words to describe my love for you
A balm for the soul, even stubborn ones can purr from it like March cats. True, these words must be pronounced strictly in a romantic setting, with complete confidence in your feelings.
14. When I look into your eyes, I see myself.
You probably already guessed that a phrase with such content is suitable for men who are already hooked and not at all suitable for those you are trying to seduce.
15. How do you feel?
Have you seen that your loved one is closed in on himself? Do not rush to sound the alarm and make scenes, perhaps something is bothering him, and this is not necessarily another woman. Ask what happened, calmly, gently, not intrusively. You can climb into someone else's soul only if you have been given permission to do so.
As a rule, a man himself wants to talk about everything that gnaws at him, but he needs to know that he can count on you to take care of him. Feminine tenderness gives the most important thing - a feeling of love. You must show your loved one that you are interested in his physical, moral and emotional well-being. Didn't get an answer? Do not force, sooner or later, he will say everything himself, but if not, think about whether this is your person, is it really necessary to tame him?
16. I couldn't do it alone
It doesn't matter what he did: he fixed the faucet, screwed in the light bulb, cooked dinner, it's important that you notice it. Stimulate him with this phrase for further exploits in the name of your queen.
17. I'm proud of you
Or “I support you”, and also “I am always with you” and “I don’t care what others say, I believe in you. No matter what happens, you are the best for me.” Show that a man can count on you. Is always. To not happen. And in the moments when he lost everything he risked, and when he celebrates the victory. You are his support, his motivator and his guiding star.
18. Let's try something new
And be sure to suggest what exactly. Any man loves to spend time with his beloved woman, and if she also offers how exactly, there is no such price. Everyone needs a shake-up: both women and men, but men, of course, are stronger. Love dies in a routine, which is why it is so important to switch attention from the usual “work - home, weekends - TV” model.
Giving advice on how to love is, of course, stupid, To love right is just to love. But still I want to pay attention to the subtleties of the relationship between women and men.
love brings great joy in the life of each of us, but often our inner fears and unresolved problems turn the joy of love into suffering and everyday quarrels, into showdowns and mutual reproaches.
If it were possible to follow all the advice in relations between men and women and it would be easy, there would probably be much more happy couples and people.
No advice will bring peace and harmony if these tips do not come from your depths.
If in your unconscious you do not respect a man and in your inner world he is already devalued, then no matter how hard you try to follow the advice and be the RIGHT woman, there will be no result.
I think a great benefit in such advice is to know them and better understand your own weak spots, think about your inner feminine state, about your deep perception of men.
First of all, you need to understand that in relationships, external behavior is not so important as the internal state of each.
The man, oddly enough, loves first of all his condition next to a woman, depending on how he feels, will be his desire to be with her.
If he feels like a MAN next to a woman, then he will try to do everything possible for her.
A woman should also feel like a WOMAN next to a man, then she will see a MAN in him, but the main responsibility for the female condition lies with the woman. No one will take care of you more than you take care of yourself. Alas, it is.
Love is the first thing to do
take care of your inner state
, well-being and mood. Therefore, at the beginning about us, about women, and only then about ourmen
What and how they love and how to love them correctly.
How do you actually take care of your inner state?
1. Do not turn your relationship with a man into only duties for yourself., do not deprive your relationship of life and joy.
If you work at 2-3 jobs, when you come home the whole house lies on you, then what kind of joy in a relationship can we talk about?
You should not be exhausted, tired, lack of sleep - all this leads to your energy exhaustion, lack of strength and loss of mood, which in turn affects all loved ones and, first of all, on.
2. Taking care of yourself and your condition includes the ability to hear yourself and your desires, very often, in the desire to help and please others, you forget about yourself.
It doesn’t matter if caring for others really brings you joy and you are recharged, then for God’s sake…
And if on the contrary, it exhausts you? So think
how to take care of yourself first
.It may be right to distribute responsibilities between your family, learn to say NO, feel the boundaries of your personal space and generally have it, both in reality and internally.
3. To love correctly is
do not impose your love, do not choke a man with love
and do not demand love and attention from him.A woman should take care of her inner world so that harmony and peace reign there.
If you are overcome by fears of being abandoned, of becoming unnecessary, it scares you
loneliness
And you don't see the joy in life without
Whether you like it or not, you will ruin your relationship and your life.
To love correctly is not to lose yourself in a relationship, not to try to merge with a man into one whole, depriving yourself and his personal space.
You should have your own interesting life without a man. Do not leave your hobbies, do not stop communicating with friends and relatives, do not get hung up on a man as the most important, and most importantly, the ONLY interesting object for you.
Know how to dissolve in a man and lose yourself, forgetting about everything, and most importantly, do not forget to return to yourself again.
4. To take care of your condition is to be able to enjoy the process. When you cook, try to cook not for the result, anyhow there is something to eat, but try to cook in a way that you will enjoy during the cooking process.
Learn to enjoy everything you do. Take 15-20 minutes every morning to be alone with yourself, with a cup of your favorite tea or coffee, tune in to a pleasant wave of a new day.
It's right to loveIt's about being able to communicate properly.
It is difficult to do this when emotions take over you, you are upset and offended, therefore it is important to keep your inner world in order, deal with your grievances, the pain of the past. Get rid of all negative attitudes that interfere with life, then a wave of rage and anger will not overwhelm you, and you will be able to control yourself in a conversation and choose the right words.
When you are in pain, you save yourself from your pain by hurting a man, thereby burning bridges to further understanding of each other.
You need to be able to communicate with a man “I am messages”, talk about your feelings - “I am angry”, “I am angry”, “I am offended”, “I feel you do not need me.”
Then be sure to voice the reason why you feel all this, and then offer a solution that would suit you.
This is how you will maintain a man’s masculine state in a man, because “You messages” in which you accuse him always have a very negative effect on a man and as a result you get nothing, only more pain and resentment.
You need to be able to calmly and correctly defend your position and desires.
6. It is important to pay attention to your facial expressions and intonations when you are talking to a man. Without noticing it yourself, you can send signals to a man about your real attitude towards him, which is hidden deep inside you and often you yourself may not even be aware of your true attitude.
Attitude towards a man is formed not with a specific man with whom you live or meet, but from those attitudes that you have absorbed from your mother, from those relationships that you had in your family, from your mother’s attitude to your father and men in general.
7. To love correctly is to be able to be open and talk about your feelings., experiences, desires directly, without hints. Men do not understand women's ornate conversations.
A self-confident woman will not hint, she will speak directly about her desires.
Very often women because of complexes and insecurity
they don't know how to ask
And they don't know how to accept.
For some reason, it seems to them that a man should guess everything himself, sometimes, forgetting simple things, ask to be heard. You need to be able to voice your requests and desires directly without hints.
You need to ask sincerely and at the same time always leave a place in your soul for refusal, but there is no doubt that the request may remain unfulfilled ... And you definitely need to have patience, each man has his own speed of perception, someone needs several days to fulfill your request and desire, someone a few months. They asked and forgot ... if this is very important, then write lists to him and attach them in a conspicuous place, periodically reminding him.
A self-confident woman will rarely think about rejecting her, and if she does, she will not be very upset, at least she will not connect it with the fact that she is not loved.
When a woman sincerely asks a man, he feels his need and need for her. This maintains his state of being a MAN.
8. Right to love is
be grateful
, to be able to sincerely thank and rejoice in what a man does, it is important to be able to see the good in his actions, and not focus on the shortcomings.Living next to a man, we begin to treat him as our property, completely forgetting that he is a separate person. We begin to take everything that comes from him for granted, as if all this should be, sometimes, not considering it necessary to say from pure heart: THANKS. Not an ordinary phrase, but a sincere thank you.
Receiving a little from unfamiliar people, we begin to warmly thank them, but we rarely indulge our man with our gratitude.
9. To love correctly is not to endure quarrels in public telling mom and girlfriends about what a monster he is.
Firstly, you do not present yourself in the best light, you chose him and live with him.
And secondly, you undermine his authority and turn your loved ones against him, thereby cutting the branch on which you are sitting. In difficult times, when relationships are cracking, it is unlikely that after your stories, one of your loved ones will help you save them.
You will be able to hear only one piece of advice - why do you need it so much that it will not add your respect to him at all.
10. To love correctly is to know what language of love your man speaks, what is important for him - your hugs or a deliciously cooked dinner, a clean apartment or your praise, a little surprise.
You can clean the apartment carefully, and he will feel unnecessary and unloved, because you did not fry the delicious meatballs that his mother cooked for him.
Or vice versa, you cook him a dinner from overseas dishes, and he will pay attention to the scattered things in the house.
You don’t need to try to be perfect in everything, it’s enough just to understand when your man feels your love and care for himself.
11. To love correctly is also to respect a man, and respect has nothing to do with intimacy. Intimacy creates an attraction to each other for no reason or reason, intimacy can also arise simply after a good attitude towards you from a good person, but this does not guarantee you respect for him.
Respect is always based on real achievements, not necessarily material, but also spiritual qualities that require no less work than material ones.
Any person has qualities, achievements for which he can be respected, it all depends on whether you see them or not.
To respect a man is to respect the boundaries of his personal space, his desires.
Men are very sensitive to any pressure, they immediately begin to show stubbornness.
A loving woman will not put pressure on a man, she will be able to express her desires in a respectful way, giving the man a choice.
12. To love a man correctly is to believe in him. Do not doubt him and his abilities. To believe is to see the potential, and if you don’t see and don’t believe in his abilities, don’t take YOUR things, leave it for another woman who will see in him what you didn’t see and not because you are bad or couldn’t see, you just have a different point of view.
Why is it so important for a woman
take care of yourself first
Because a man is very sensitive to a woman's mood, although he does not show it.
Everything that a man does, he does it only for the sake of a woman, family, children, and it is very important for him to see a woman contented and happy.
If a woman is irritated and tired, then a man receives for himself the information “I'm BAD”, “I can't make her happy”, “She feels bad with me”, and who likes to feel forever bad.
Sometimes a woman specifically demonstrates her displeasure, wanting a man to think about it and begin to change his behavior or attitude, but the woman does not realize that her dissatisfaction with him and reproaches have the opposite effect, the man closes.
Now you understand how important it is to take care of not only your appearance, but also your inner world. Being in harmony with yourself, you will create harmony around yourself.
woman scoops vital energy in nature, a man receives energy from a woman. You can return what you received and, accordingly, establish energy exchange with the help of gifts. There is a pattern: everything presented to a woman will return to her lover tenfold. But greedy men close on themselves energy flow, in their affairs there comes a stagnation. And vice versa - generous men achieve a lot: their women easily part with their energy for the sake of their beloved, and it increases his strength and power.
How to support a man?
Men don't like being given advice or sympathy without asking. They want to be trusted. Men need to constantly assert themselves. They get a lot of pleasure, achieving something on their own. A man feels supported when a Woman tells him something like: “I believe in you, that you can handle it yourself. I trust you with this until you yourself openly ask for help.
Many women believe that the only way to get what they want in a relationship with a Man is to criticize when he is wrong and give advice when he does not ask for them. A woman often does not suspect that she can induce a Man to do something, simply asking him about it directly, without criticism and advice. If a Woman does not like the way a Man behaves, she should directly tell him about it, without judging him and not saying that he is wrong or that he is bad.
There are three magic words who can support the Man: "You are not to blame." When a Woman shares her sorrows with a Man, she will be very supportive if she says: “I really appreciate that you listen to me. If you think that I am blaming you, then this is not so - I am just sharing with you what I feel.
The fact is that a Man often perceives as an accusation that a Woman ingenuously tells him about her grief - this instantly blocks communication and negatively affects relationships. It is important to remember that good communication requires the participation of both parties. A man should not forget that complaints are not accusations, and when a Woman complains, she is simply trying to relieve tension by talking about what upsets her. And it is important for a Woman to make it clear to a Man that she appreciates him, despite all her complaints.
Men are very upset when they are not required to solve a problem, because they need to feel good in every sense. Letting the Man know that he helps her a lot, just by listening to her, the Woman opens his eyes to her nature and at the same time gives him a reason for self-affirmation, which is so precious for the Man.
To support a man A woman should not suppress her feelings or change them. However, it is important for her to learn how to express them in such a way that the Man does not feel that he is being attacked, accused or condemned. A small change in the inner emphasis in expressing feelings can give amazing results!
John Gray
WHAT A MAN WANTS FROM A WOMAN
✔I want you to listen to me, but not judge me.
✔ I want you to speak up without giving me advice unless I ask.
✔ I want you to trust me without demanding anything.
✔ I want you to be my support without trying to decide for me.
✔ I want you to take care of me, but not like a mother to her son.
✔ I want you to look at me without trying to get something from me.
✔ I want you to hug me, but not choke me.
✔ I want you to inspire me, but not lie.
✔ I want you to support me in a conversation, but do not answer for me.
✔ I want you to be closer, but leave me personal space.
✔ I want you to be aware of my unattractive traits, accept them and not try to change them.
✔ I want you to know... that you can count on me... No limits.
Jorge Bukay
PHRASES that can have a striking effect on men:
1. My Beloved (this is IMPORTANT: do not use the word - Dear, this word no longer contains the necessary information. On the contrary, this word in relation to a man has a glamorous and mannered connotation);
2. Strong (I think comments are unnecessary here)
3. The most daring (most importantly, to say with a complete lack of irony)
4. You are the best (awesome phrase, it works for almost all types of men of all ages)
5. Sexy (Oh yeah!)
6. Smart (amazing effect - word bomb!)
7. Generous (Real men think that they are, however, not real Jews - too)
8. Clever, well done (do not be shy: use these words generously and often, and you will be happy!)
9. Unsurpassed (in a particular case)
10. Awesome
11. I feel so good with you (you can after intimacy, you can just like that, a great phrase that never happens!);
12. You turn me on (and also “insert” - and to be honest, this is a treasure for close relationships, a hook phrase);
13. I miss you so much (a good phrase if you are apart);
14. I admire you (no comment!)
15. I love you so much (often, often, constantly say this phrase to HIM, believe me - it works!)
16. You can make me laugh
17. Only you understand me (Often, with a heartfelt intonation, the result will be excellent!)
18. You know me inside and out (A wonderful phrase that generates trust, the main thing is not to do the opposite, otherwise it will not work)
19. You are the only one for me (Let's please their male Ego!)
20. I love your touch (Let them learn, dear and beloved, it will be useful for them where a woman is pleased and where not)
21. I'm behind you like behind a stone wall (Once a week is an excellent frequency of use)
22. I breathe you (you can change the ending to “live”)
23. I can’t imagine what I would do without you (How they (men) dream about it, therefore more often, with the right intonation and tenderness in their eyes.)
24. I am so calm next to you (same effect as in the phrase with "stone wall")
25. You are so gallant (refined compliment)
26. I'm so happy with you (Chic phrase, which is 90% of the male population)
27. I don't want you to stop loving me sometime (small suggestion)
28. I can't stop admiring you (Psychologists say that men look in the mirror more often than beautiful ladies, which means it works!)
29. I will love you forever (No need for pathos, it's better to say - "always")
30. I miss your hugs (Great phrase that works 100% when you are apart)
31. I beg your pardon
32. You are so insatiable (Men dream of being like that, so let's tell them THIS!)
33. I'm so lonely without you (Good energy, often tell him this on the phone, in letters, sms)
34. I can't wait to see you
35. I miss you so much (on the phone, in a letter - amazing effect)
36. I don't need anything but your love. (Yes, yes, cool wording, here you are hinting that he is needed as he is, without a car, apartment, etc. They appreciate it.)
37. I trust you in everything ( good phrase, works)
38. I will follow you to the ends of the world (You can also use "earth", "planet")
39. You are my prince on a white horse (or on a Mercedes. Use only in relation to a loved one)
40. Just be with me (yes, they, these boys, still believe in “just”)
41. I am so grateful to you for everything you have done for me (works well, proven phrase, works 100 percent)
42. I want to be with you forever (Oddly enough, despite some pathos, this is a phrase that many men fall for. Try it.)
43. I want to wake up next to you every morning (Gorgeous magnet, act girls!)
44. The thought of separation from you kills me (sometimes this is possible, if infrequently and on business!)
45. I have never loved anyone so much! (Do not say this very often, otherwise the man begins to think, but were there many of them, these same “no one”, and why did she set it up, what if ...? Well, in general, you understand!)
46. You know how to be so gentle (great phrase, let them believe in it and become more tender, bumpkins!)
47. Your kisses drive me crazy (let him try more often)
48. I go crazy when you look at me like that (Let him look more often and more closely, this is only good for us)
49. When you leave me so bad (sometimes, but not very often, it can be used)
50. I couldn't even dream that I could meet you (yes, hook phrase)
51. My life became bright when I met you (Effective, worth using)
52. I don’t have enough words to express how much I love you (Phrase-lighter in a relationship, say once a week or a little less often)
53. You are the man of my dreams (Oh yes! The logical conclusion of this worthy list of phrases, the frequency is about once every 5-7 days, not more often).
Many women around only declare: All men only want sex! He's not interested in me at all." - “I only need him to satisfy! Animal!" - “Men are so primitive that they are not interested in anything in a woman but sex!”. Or maybe just the fair sex do not want to see anything else?
You may be surprised, but there is something what men want even more than sex (with the exception of the age of 15-19 years). Only their severity and pride does not allow to say about it. Today's editorial "So simple!" dispel the main stereotype about men.
What to say to a man
Men absolutely do not want to offend women. Yes, they have a much stronger attraction to the opposite sex, but such is nature. But as has long been known, sex is only 50% of a happy relationship. After all, women want men to understand them, but for some reason they themselves do not want to look beyond the stereotype. And the males are so offended that, perhaps, women will never know the whole truth.
In fact, a man needs tenderness and a sense of peace. He wants to have a completely different personal world with a woman. A light touch of a beloved woman can not only improve your mood, but also relieve melancholy and motivate you to new achievements. But a man is afraid to ask about it, because it is, at first glance, so obvious. And yes, they are afraid to seem weak and soft in the eyes of their beloved.
A man must feel love. We are sure that every man wants to feel it. It's simple - female acceptance and approval. As you know, it is the woman who sets the emotion in the relationship. The second most important place after touch is occupied by words. They can give a man self-confidence that will soon change the world around you.
Men want to be interested. You don’t need to be smart about anything, just ask about how the day went, what was interesting, how this or that circumstance influenced it. But there is one nuance here: you should not arrange a real interrogation about a man’s work affairs, especially if he is an influential person or works in “interesting” services. There are things that a woman should not go into too much, especially if she likes to gossip with her friends.
Men also want to be appreciated for their efforts. Note verbally. Because he can't know what you thought. He is not you. So you need to express your thoughts and admiration. That's about what a man wants to hear.
- "I'm glad you brought us here, thank you".
- “You are such a good guy! You work so hard and try for our family.”.
- So that she touches my shoulder and whispers: “You are such a good father and husband. I love you for it".
- When I offered her my vacation option, she took my hand and said: "Damn it, I adore you!"
- When I come home from work, she meets me at the doorstep and says: "Hi! I am so glad to see you". Ideally, if she does it with a smile, and if she also wears beautiful lingerie...
- So that when I feel bad, she just hugged me and said: "Everything will be fine". No extra words or questions.
- So that after intimacy she does not start immediately about everyday life, but says: "Wow! Well, you're still the beast!
Remember the last time you complimented a man? And what was his reaction? Do men like being complimented?
I believe that the compliments that we give to women (for example, "t I have the most beautiful, dear, you look so good"), efficient and effective...
Men also like to be told nice words. It's our nature - we love to be praised. But, are those affectionate words that a woman says to her man always really a compliment? Learn more about this.
And as always, I will tell you about compliments that a man WANTS to hear. But first I want to explain why I decided to write this article for you.
Believe me, first you need to strive and only then to be understood. In this order. I want to emphasize that this does not mean at all that you put your interests in the background. Quite the contrary, as a result, both are satisfied.
What is common between compliments to a woman and a man and how do they differ?
The compliments that we make to each other pursue the same goal - to show the significance of a lover or beloved for us. So let's go in order. To begin with, I want to convey to you the importance of compliments to a beloved man.
Compliments to a man are necessary in order to instill strength in him, to give him support. Your words, when they are sincerely caring, are able to convey to your beloved that he "hero"He wants to hear about it, not guess. Praising his masculine qualities - you strengthen the man's self-confidence.
He needs to know that he is strong, that he has influence, that he has the gift of persuasion, for example. Let him know what you see in himhis hero."
This article is valuable in that you will gain practical skills if you read it to the end. In addition, I will sharesecret information, which I give only in training.
Thanks Evgeniya! In their family relationships mutual understanding reigns with the beloved. I'm happy for them.
Do you want to get the husband of your dreams? Then let's get started.
The purpose of complimenting a man is to keep the emotional connection in the relationship.
First, let's remember what it is - an emotional connection? AT modern world There is an opinion that successful and functional relationships in a married couple are built on mutual respect and unconditional trust. And love, passion and other romance"is not a matter of first importance,"possible without it"
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If in your relationship with a man there is a place for that very “ romance", then strengthens them" emotional connection". This is important for your communication. And I'll tell you why.
Emotional connection, in a married couple, is the foundation on which your House is built. A home where you want to return as soon as possible. You know the feeling when you really want to get home after " have a bad day ”, where all the negativity of the day will not weigh on you. This is the place where troubles lose their weight, become insignificant.
Rest assured, if you, as a married couple, do not create such an atmosphere for each other, then no one will do this for you. Such an environment is necessary. After all, it can come to , rupture of relations.
Ask yourself: do I want communication with my man to create conditions "security inside my house "? If a "Yes”, then a very effective method is to compliment your man. And do it right.
In the training, we teach women the art of making the right compliments. This skill is devoted to a whole lesson number 18 called “Compliments”.
The effect on a man that compliments can have
And this is especially important point. How do you like this thought: you can " program» actions of a man with the help of « proper compliments".
It is noteworthy that with their simple help you can get from a man .... yes anything! If you know how to compliment a man in bed, in correspondence, at work, anywhere and at any time, about his style, about his appearance - thereby instill in him a desire to do something. Also you can while complimenting him.
I want you to understand correctly. For this, I will give one statement of the muse V.V. Mayakovsky - Lily Brik. This idea conveys the essence very accurately. She said:“... It is necessary to inspire a man that he is wonderful and even brilliant, it’s just that others don’t understand this. And allow what is forbidden to him at home, and then you will create your ideal man ... "
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But you could do " right"compliment to a man. Say that none of the men you know has such extraordinary mental abilities. Believe me, it motivates you to achieve. The mechanism works - and the man, confident in his abilities, begins to act.
How to compliment a man?
So, the desire to restore a smile on the face of your loved one, the desire to cheer him up is commendable and absolutely true. But in most cases, women use “supposedly tried and proven” methods that bring the opposite result.
For example: try to bring it to " intimate talk". The catch here is that men mostly endure hardships. inside yourself". And so for him talking about your problems' is by no means an encouragement. On the contrary, he moves even further away.
Remember, have you ever had this: did he react to a sincere attempt to help his lover in such a way that he closed himself even more inside himself?
I want to convey that the best compliment for a man is a phrase that characterizes your condition next to him, makes it clear that you are happy and grateful to him for being with you. A man wants to understand that you are satisfied with the way he cares for you. He wants to know that you feel happy next to him, appreciate what he does for you. Therefore, I want to present you a very easy, but effective method.
Pay attention to these 16 phrases, " denounced» in compliments to the man. You can successfully use them in order to develop, improve those qualities for which you value him - courage, strength, and similar character traits.
16 phrases denounced as compliments to a man ...
- Your smile turns me on / You make me lose my mind
- I lose track of time when I'm around you
- I think about you all the time when you are around
- I adore your smile. In the morning when I see her, she motivates me to be even better for you.
- Take my hand, let's go for a walk. I want everyone to see what a wonderful man I have
- Looking into your eyes, I want to dissolve in them. I want you. You feed my life force more than the air I breathe
- I want you to hug me" whole body". Let even the wind not slip between us
- I can't think of anything else when you're next to me
- If you were a drink, I would drink you in one gulp / or vice versa - savored, with a blissful smile on my face
- Having touched your world once, I burned with a desire to be a part of it always.
- I love it when you look at me like that. I feel loved
- When you speak, I can even hear your warm breath
- There is no such person in the whole world. Which would be of such value to me
- It was next to you that I understood the essence of the statement " women love with their ears". When you speak, my attention is drawn to every word you say. Your voice is a real magnet
- I admire your ability to make……/your ability
- The best place on the ground where I may be - your strong embrace. I feel protected next to you
Compliments to a man are a weapon.
So, in your fragile hands is the tool with which you can create the man of your dreams.
You will be surprised how easy it is to have such a man nearby who meets all your needs. The main thing is that you do not deprive him of his freedom, because he wants this himself - to BE THE BEST FOR YOU. Remind him that you feel protected next to him, and you will feel it more and more.
Impress him that with such a level of intellectual development can not be compared « not a single head» at his job that he has no competitors there. With each passing day, this confidence will grow stronger. Fill the mind of your chosen one with this confidence.
And again about harmony. Not always your words can achieve the ultimate goal and cheer up a man. These words may seem feigned, and he will perceive them as flattery. Believe what you say when complimenting a man.
In addition, men cannot be overpraised. It is arrogant 🙂 This has been tested by more than one woman and not one man.
Marilyn Monroe said: I agree to live in a world ruled by men as long as I can be a woman in this world". You have the power, use it. This is how this world works.
But I want to remind you: I want to build happy families. And it is for women pursuing a noble goal - to create a family, healthy relationships, that I give away the accumulated experience. And this experience is not designed to seduce a man and rejoice "purchasing a toy.
Lesson number 5 called "Secrets of building relationships" (as part of the training) gives a woman practical skills and techniques for taking relationships with a man to a new level. Including compliments.
Thank you for reading this article. It is very important for me to know that my words have value for you! Save these phrases on your page on the social network. Remember, by giving the right compliments to a man, you are making the right choice!
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