Is a friend or relative having a birthday? The question of gifts for loved ones is always quite complicated. Everything that was possible has already been donated long ago, and it is simply inappropriate to acquire insignificant souvenirs for show for those who are very dear. And lately everything more people chooses creative gifts. They give vacation vouchers, tickets to various concerts, paintings. And it is the pictures that can be the most interesting present. And not canvases depicting landscapes or animals, but portraits.
A personal picture is a very interesting gift, and many would like to have it, but not everyone openly admits this, because they consider hanging portraits on the walls unfashionable. In fact, the fashion for them is gradually returning. And people willingly decorate the walls of their houses with these pictures.
But how to organize the writing of the picture? After all, if you take the future hero of the day with you to an art workshop, then the surprise will be completely ruined. The person will already be aware of what present is being prepared for him. Therefore, it is worth going to the workshop in which they will draw a portrait from a photograph,. Now many artists offer the service of transferring an image from a picture to a canvas. As a result, the personal presence of the person who will be drawn in the picture is not required. And this is very convenient, since the guest who comes to the birthday party has a real chance to keep secret what gift he will prepare.
A personal portrait can be presented to a person of any age. And if mature and elderly people are happy with the classic picture, then young people will appreciate the pop art portrait more. This is an unusual picture in which a graphic image of a person is applied with black strokes on a bright multi-colored background. Such an artistic masterpiece looks very original, and it will become an extremely unusual gift. In addition, stylish youth will undoubtedly appreciate it precisely for its “informality”. After all, this is not a simple picture in a wooden baguette, but an unusual work of modern art.
But you can order not only a painted portrait. Now high-quality photo printing on canvas is in great fashion. This option is also interesting. After all, the paints for this masterpiece will be used very high quality, and the final image will turn out to be very natural. And if you put such a picture in a beautiful frame, you will get the impression that a real portrait is hanging on the wall, and not a photo print. Whatever option for making the picture is chosen by the one who was invited to a fun holiday, he will give his friend an extremely touching present. After all, such a gift testifies to the closeness of two people, since such things are usually not given to strangers. And for those who want to emphasize their affection for loved ones, it is worth giving such personal gifts as portraits. Moreover, the price of writing them is not so high, and everyone can afford to make such a unique present for their friends and relatives.
Birthday, wedding, anniversary... As you can see, a person has a lot of holidays, but at the same time everyone found himself on the other side of the "barricades" when you need to go to visit, and with a gift that the recipient would like. Artistic masterpieces do not occupy the last place in the list of presents, but sometimes doubts arise whether it is possible to give paintings, to whom and which ones.
There is not a single article on the Internet that would claim that paintings, as gifts, are banned. No, you can and should give them, but only according to certain rules.
Firstly, there is a difference when a picture is presented to a sweet, charming mistress of the house, a serious owner or their happy birthday child. Secondly, it is important to know what artistic tastes the family adheres to, whether it loves classical art, is enthusiastic about the avant-garde, or is generally obsessed with artistic photography. Thirdly, it would be nice for the donor to first evaluate the territory, apartment or office, which will subsequently decorate the present.
An office or a bedroom, a nursery or a kitchen - each of the rooms requires its own accessories. And here the general style of the apartment and the specific style of the room, the color of the wall and floor coverings, the presence of accessories and other artistic canvases play a role.
What to pay attention to?
Landscapes are appreciated. This is the most common type of painting among such gifts, and the landscape should be bright, joyful, creating a mood. It is necessary to refuse to buy paintings as a gift, in which gloomy landscapes correspond to late autumn.
Still lifes are the second most popular type of picturesque gifts that can decorate the hall, the corridor, and, most importantly, the kitchen. In the latter case, the still life should be the most "delicious, juicy, appetizing." Portraits are the last item on the list of gifts, as they are the hardest to pick up.
For a family, it is better to choose paintings with soft colors and lyrical plots. For a colleague, a masterpiece depicting a staircase, a mountain peak is suitable, which symbolizes the wishes of a successful career. Works with favorite characters of fairy tales are good for a child.
Another secret, no matter how expensive and beautiful antique paintings cost, they are not recommended to be bought as a gift. Things that are many years old carry various energies accumulated over the centuries, sometimes not entirely good. But the paintings of modern masters, filled with juicy, joyful, positive colors, will help create a mood in the house.
Beautiful handover!
Choosing an artistic masterpiece is a very difficult task. But do not think that after spending a lot of time choosing a painting and giving money, you can already breathe freely. There is still a small nuance - how to beautifully organize the presentation of such, in general, an unusual gift.
Traditionally, as a gift, the paintings are wrapped in festive paper and tied with a ribbon. Currently, there is a huge selection of packaging products in stores, you should not regret a small amount for a decent design!
Making the right gift is hard. To do this, you should be well aware of the desires of a person and observe important signs.
Present - an important part of human relationships. They can be given with or without reason. The gift symbolizes not only a sign of attention, but also respectful attitude to a person. The size of the gift depends on the significance of the event.: a significant date or a serious anniversary, for example.
When choosing a gift, be sure need to focus on features not only celebrations, but also on the preferences of a person: what he loves, what he is fond of, what he prefers and what he rejects. Some cautions apply to the sex of the person, as well as his age.
Phrase "don't give" rather suggests "better choose something else". But, all people are different, and therefore what seems forbidden to one, can please another. However, over time, humanity was able to designate signs worked out by experience and time, telling about unwanted gifts for men.
What can not be given to men, signs:
- It is believed that if you give a loved one socks- he will leave you.
- Underpants- a gift will help your loved one cheat on you.
- Knives, scissors, needles (any sharp objects)- a gift will contribute to the "aggravation" of relations.
- Watch- a bad gift, since this thing is capable of not only “measuring time”, but also “counting the minutes of life”, that is, bringing the time of death closer to a person. On the other hand, you can also consider the clock as a means of approximating the breakup.
What is not customary to give a beloved man:
- Something banal and, as they say, “not from the heart”: slippers, towels, a notebook, another cup. Such things can “hint” to a man about measured old age, or they can show your indifference and disinterest in making your loved one pleasant.
- Wealthy adult man should not receive money as a gift because, first of all, this is not a gift for him. Such a gesture will only a sign of your indifference and inattention.
- Uninteresting or unnecessary books"disappoint" the man. A book should be given only when you know for sure that your loved one will be interested in it. It can be a book related to professional activities, a rarity, a chic encyclopedia.
- bad tone - give alcohol to the man you love. An exception may be a special bottle of wine or whiskey of high value, as well as significance.
- Such a gift is unacceptable sports subscription. This will be your "direct hint" that you are not happy with the appearance of your loved one and this will upset him.
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What gifts can not be given to a woman, wife, girlfriend?
Women are very superstitious more men. That's why a gift for a beloved woman should be chosen with special trepidation and a desire to please. However, there are a number of gifts, according to the beautiful half of humanity, which unacceptable and undesirable.
What can not be given to a woman:
- Weightloss remedy. It does not matter at all what it will be: a simulator or Tibetan herbal tablets. In any case, such a gift will be able to “hint” to a woman that her figure is in a deplorable state and needs to be corrected.
- Cream for wrinkles or acne. At first glance, this is the right gift. However, he is able to tell a woman that her age-related and other skin problems are noticeable to others. In general, it is very difficult to give cosmetics, because you can always not please the company or, trying to save money, buy a budget tool. Cheap cosmetics will not please any woman. Best to give cosmetics elite class and universal application, for example: moisturizing body lotion, hand cream or bath foam.
- Subscription to a doctor or beautician. The decision on whether to visit a particular specialist or not should be made by each woman on her own. If you yourself begin to “push her” with your gifts to such an event, you risk spoiling her mood and taking away the hope that she looks attractive to others.
- Animal: dog, cat, bird and so on. Such a decision must be made in concert and together. Such a gift should not be a surprise. This gift is not always "happy" calm and clean. The animal often requires 100% attention and reverent care.
- Perfume. Perfume is, of course, a good gift. But, women are often impossible to please with fragrance: too sweet, stuffy, floral, woody, and so on. Therefore, before presenting perfumes (preferably high-quality and expensive), it is necessary to clarify the desired brand and name.
- epilator. The thing is very necessary, useful for women. But, it is unlikely that the epilator will be a pleasant gift from a man. The only exception may be when the woman herself "orders" this thing.
- Clothes or underwear. Even the most expensive set may simply not fit in size. Therefore, you can offer a woman to order clothes on the Internet, and you just pay for it. Or, invite your loved one to go shopping. Another point: donated underwear can be too "vulgar".
- Fake. Poor quality gifts and fake gifts from well-known manufacturers can be negatively perceived by women who know a lot about brands.
- Money. Often they can be perceived by women as a man’s unwillingness to devote time to looking for a really important gift.
IMPORTANT: Negatively perceived by both women and men, overpriced gifts: elite writing pens, notepads, trifles and souvenirs.
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What gifts can not be accepted: signs
There are a number of signs regarding gifts for any occasion. It is believed that "forbidden" gifts can bring bad luck and problems. Folk signs, tested for hundreds of years and millions of people, have negative energy and that is why gifts "carry a danger."
Bad gifts:
- Knives - contribute to scandal and bad relationships
- Watch -"shorten" your life or "shorten" your good relationships.
- Books - if they are given to newlyweds, they are considered "harbingers of treason."
- Tableware - empty donated dishes can lead to lack of money.
- Wallet - can cause lack of money, so that this does not happen, just put money inside.
- Handkerchief - a thing that can "attract" tears and sorrows.
- Pearls - this precious material is considered a "symbol" of widow's and orphan's tears.
- Medical supplies – such a gift, which is somehow connected with diseases and pains, will not bring anything happy.
- Money - a gift frequent, but negative. It is believed that a person who gives money "loses" his fortune.
- Mirror - a mirror received as a gift can bring bad luck to the family.
What can't be accepted as a gift? What gifts can not be accepted from the mother-in-law?
Happy personal and family life often depends on how reverently people observe signs. One of them concerns gifts given by the mother-in-law:
- Tableware- a bad gift from the mother-in-law. This thing, as part of everyday life, can be safely given by the parents of the bride (wife), since it is they who are “responsible for the dowry”.
- Glass from the mother-in-law - "to quarrels", cast iron and metal- to the noise and scream, spoons and forks- to offensive words.
- Bed sheets- a gift "with a negative note" for the daughter-in-law. This thing must be purchased independently, or received as a dowry from parents. Underwear donated by the mother-in-law can affect the fact that the spouses will cheat on each other.
- Empty wallets and bags- a gift that can affect financial well-being in a negative way.
What can not be accepted as a gift from the mother-in-law? For what gift they give a coin: signs
Modern man has found a kind of "loophole", allowing him accept even forbidden gifts. Thus, the symbolic fee paid, "buy" a person out of problems and a gift can't hurt.
You should give a coin for a gift if you were given:
- Forks
- Scissors
- Mirror
- Animal (to take root)
- Icons
- Indoor flowers (like animals to take root)
Some gifts bring great joy, while others increase problems and "attract" bad luck. If you are handed something from this list, do not accept such a gift:
- Empty wallet- will bring you lack of money. If a wallet with money, and even red, is a good gift, which, on the contrary, can “attract wealth to you.”
- Beads (beads, beads)- this gift will bring you tears and sadness.
- Empty dishes and household utensils. We are talking about absolutely any items: cups, pots, even basins and buckets. Such a gift can bring "emptiness" to your home.
What gifts bring bad luck? What are the gifts for parting, for separation?
According to the people some gifts are very "notorious". Certain things can even make people fight and break up. These gifts include:
- Watch- “bring closer” the time of your separation
- Comb- can contribute to the fact that you cannot keep your words and quarrel with a person.
- casket- can contribute to the fact that a person will hide secrets from you and this will cause quarrels.
- sharp objects- "sharpen" your relationship and contribute to their break.
- Alcohol- it is believed that if you don’t drink it right away, it will ruin a person’s health and his attitude towards you.
- Gloves or mittens- "bring" quarrels into your relationship and contribute to their break.
- Scarves and towels- "harbingers" of parting and quarrels.
- Roses with sharp thorns are considered a gift, bringing "taunts" and scandals to life.
- Icons, religious things and "sad" pictures(portraits, utopia, destruction) - will bring people a lot of negative emotions and spoil the relationship between those who receive the gift and those who give it.
IMPORTANT: To accept or not to accept such gifts is a personal matter for each person. Nevertheless, if suddenly a person does not want to accept a thing, so to speak, from the "black list", do not insist on it. Just take back the gift and promise to replace it with another one soon. Or, offer to “buy” this gift from you for a symbolic low fee: a trifle or a minimum bill. The purchased item will not be able to cause harm if, in fact, it is exchanged for money.
what gifts bring bad luck? What will happen if you presented a doll made by yourself: a sign
Dolls are enough dubious gift. Most often, they are given to children. And what does a doll given to an adult mean, and besides, it’s also made with your own hands? Here dual meaning.
Since ancient times, the doll has been both a talisman for man and a source of evil. This one depended on who gave such a gift and what it meant. Mothers wove “motanki” (the first homemade dolls) for children for protection. At the same time, envious people and people involved in magic spoke homemade dolls and made linings for diseases.
IMPORTANT: Pay attention to appearance dolls, if you are not sure about the person who gave it to you. If you immediately feel negative emotions- Refuse the gift.
Why give a doll? What does a gift mean? Why not give towels?
It turns out that such a simple and common gift as a towel is also has its signs. The most popular one says: a towel is a gift for trouble. It has long been considered so because this thing was actively used in Russia in funeral rites: a towel hung out the window meant that someone had died in the house, the doors were not closed, but tied with a towel, the coffin was lowered into the ground on the towels.
IMPORTANT: Modern people consider the towel a "negative" gift because it portends quarrels, illnesses and partings.
Can I donate a scarf? Scarf: signs of a gift
Scarf - unusual and very popular gift. He characterizes the giving person from the best side, showing how reverently and attentively he treats his beloved people. The folk tale says that a scarf is a gift with an "auspicious meaning."
IMPORTANT: Such a gift will be able to "bind" people to each other: to unite and improve their relationship. This property is also present in other "girdle" gifts: belts, rings, bracelets.
Why can't you give an empty wallet?
An empty wallet, perhaps the worst and most unpleasant gift. The fact is that he is able to directly affect the financial viability of a person: an empty wallet will be "empty" in the future. You need to give and receive only the wallet in which there is at least symbolic money. It is desirable that this bill be red (red color attracts wealth).
Why can't you give socks to a man?
One of the most popular signs regarding gifts for men says: giving socks is bad. This may contribute to the man will leave you. But, despite this, women often buy and give this “clothing item” to their chosen ones for small holidays.
Is it possible to give shoes to a man?
Despite the fact that shoes are important and necessary for a person, it can be a bad gift for a man:
- Quarrel with friends and loved ones
- Facilitate breakups and separations (i.e. the person simply “leaves” you).
- Slippers are not allowed. It is believed that slippers are shoes that lead a person to the “afterlife”.
Why can't you give pearls for your birthday?
One of the oldest signs says that it is impossible to give pearls for a birthday or any other holiday. This happened because it associated with tears. Therefore, to give pearls is to give a reason for tears and sadness.
Why can't you give a cross?
The cross is an ambiguous gift. Someone will say that it is simply impossible to give it as a gift. There must be a reason for this - baptism. Nonetheless, the church does not forbid giving such a present on the contrary, encourages. The cross will protect a person from evil, it is recommended to consecrate it in the church.
Why can't you give a handkerchief?
Handkerchief- a personal thing. Besides, she associated in humans with tears and loss. That is why such a gift is considered a "harbinger" of problems, quarrels and partings.
What gifts are negative? Why not donate mirrors?
The mirror has long been considered a mystical object and an adapter to the other world. In addition, the mirror is able to accumulate various information, both positive and negative. That's why do not give a mirror to a loved one to rid him of sadness, problems, worries and bad events.
How many roses can not be given?
Give flowers needed only in odd numbers. The sign originated in antiquity. It was customary to say: "trouble does not come alone." That is why giving two and another even number of flowers - not nice.
What does an even number of flowers in a bouquet mean?
You can only bring an even number of flowers to a funeral, as this is not a holiday or a celebration. You can give bouquets with an even number of flowers only if field flowers: they are small and cannot be counted.
Why not give yellow roses?
Yellow donated roses can be interpreted in different ways:
- Yellow color attracts attention and therefore the bouquet can, as if, say: "Careful!".
- On the other hand, yellow is also considered the color of illness, hatred, shame and even madness. That is why it is often used in expressions, for example, "yellow press".
- Bouquet of yellow roses “hint” a person about indifference and ambiguous attitude towards him.
IMPORTANT: An old legend tells the story of a prophet who went on a campaign. The wife promised to be faithful to him, but immediately upon his return, the man decided to check her. He asked to dip a rose into the water, and if it retains its red color, then the woman did not lie to him. The rose turned yellow. Since that time, the color has been considered a symbol of treason.
Flowers: the meaning of a gift Why give soap: a sign
It turns out that even such a useful and necessary gift as soap can have signs. Unfortunately, negative omens:
- Soap can negatively affect well-developed, working affairs.
- Soap "brings" trouble
- Soap is a gift that brings tears and troubles
- A gift can contribute to the fact that conflicts and quarrels will not subside in your family.
- Receive soap as a gift - find yourself in a "slippery" situation
IMPORTANT: From a psychological point of view, the presented soap is a hint that the person is not clean or smells bad.
Is it possible to give a blanket and pillows for a birthday?
Pillows and blankets - a gift associated with warmth and comfort. This is a good gift for birthday, housewarming and anniversary. Nevertheless, in any company there can be an overly suspicious person who will say: pillows and blankets for diseases! It is important to clarify in advance with a person how superstitious he is, or to present him with a gift in a different setting.
Why can't you donate money?
Money is the most frequent gift only because “there is always a lack of it”. Close people want to please a person with a gift and often simply do not have much time to carefully choose a gift. However, there is a negative sign about this: by giving money, you risk losing “your fortune”.
What gifts to give? Is it possible to give coins for a wedding?
The coin can serve for the newlyweds a talisman. Since ancient times, coins have been laid in the foundation when building a house, worn in wallets, and laid under the threshold. Modern wedding planners also offer to mint a special personal coin that will "protect" a young family.
Is it possible to give dishes for a birthday, wedding?
Any dishes donated for the celebration, must not be empty: sets, pots, glasses and so on. They are sure should be filled with something. so that the young people have “full” in the house. To do this, you can use sweets, coins, money, postcards.
Why can't you donate animals?
An animal is a gift often desired by children and adults. But giving it unexpectedly is a risky business. The fact is, any kitten or puppy, a person must “feel” in order to find contact and harmony with him.
In addition, before you accept a puppy as a gift, you should pay a nominal fee for it. Such an action contributes to the calmness of the animal and to the fact that it "takes root" in a new home.
Can you donate an animal? Why can't you give sharp objects?
Sharp objects (knives, needles, scissors, nail files, forks) are not accepted as gifts. The fact is that they can contribute to the fact that your relationship with a person will deteriorate and will be literally "on knives". You can change the action of the omen with the help of "payback". Offer to buy a gift for a nominal fee.
Is it possible to give a bag: a sign
A bag, like a wallet, can be a bad omen. It depends on what kind of bag you are giving: full or empty. Put something symbolic inside: a sweet, a keychain, or at least a postcard.
Is it possible to give gloves: a sign
Gloves or mittens are considered not the most favorable gift. Such a present can contribute to squabbles and quarrels between two people. To correct the situation will help "payback" for a nominal fee.
Giving a portrait: a bad omen
Portrait - a gift that can carry negative energy. You may simply not like it, it can highlight all the shortcomings of a person. One of the signs claims that the portrait will contribute to a quarrel between the giver and the recipient of the gift.
Is it possible to give a salt shaker: a sign
Salt has long been shrouded in mysticism and omens. Nevertheless, giving, borrowing and scattering salt is bad. Donated salt shaker will help not only to “save” salt, but also to warn a person from problems.
Why can't you give gifts?
To give what was once given to you, Bad sign. It is believed that you are give your energy to another person and send it in the wrong direction. Even the most unpleasant and unnecessary gifts need to be used so that your business goes well, you are not haunted by negativity.
Why give a pen: a sign
A pen is an ambiguous gift. A high-quality expensive pen is a gesture showing respect for a person. At the same time, it encourages "decisions to be made for you", sometimes against your will.
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People who believe in folk omens and various gifts are serious about choosing gifts for their friends, parents and soulmates. Of course, some beliefs justify themselves, but most are completely devoid of common sense. The editors of Woman's Day decided to tell you about those that have the right to exist. So, many have heard that some things are better not to give. But do you know what not to give?
1. Clock
Watches are at the top of the list. There is a belief among the people that if you give a watch to your beloved or beloved, then you will part as soon as they stop walking. In China, they don’t like to give watches either, according to the sign, such a present means that you were invited to a funeral.
2. Pearl
Pearls are not given as jewelry - it is believed that this is a stone of tears, brings misfortune. Only a young virgin girl can wear pearl jewelry. Pearls are looking for a mate, so it is better to wear two items with pearls at once, for example, a ring and beads. Otherwise, there will be misfortune in love.
3. Sharp objects
It would seem that a set of expensive knives is a great gift for a man. However, there is a sign that says that a donated knife brings misfortune, quarrels and trouble to the life of its owner. If, nevertheless, the gift has already been given, then it is necessary to give something in return, for example, a coin.
In addition, they say that the edge of a knife can attract evil spirit, and then the relationship between the recipient and the giver will be broken. For the same reason, it is worth refusing to buy cutlery, for example, forks, as a present.
4. Photography
It is believed that if you give a photo to a loved one, then the relationship will not last long or the couple will be overtaken by a long separation. If you present one of the lovers with a photograph depicting a couple together, then the relationship will either not progress further, or even stop. Also, in no case should you give a framed photograph, as it is associated with a tombstone.
Experts say that a photograph contains a huge energy of the giver, so it can affect the recipient not only from the good side, but also from the negative side. However, all these signs can be bypassed if you really want to present your portrait to your loved one as a keepsake.
You just need to sign your picture on the back. It is known that if you sign a photo from the heart, then the sign ceases to be valid.
5. Mirror
Mirrors are credited with many mystical properties, including it is believed that they are guides to the afterlife. They also say that mirrors lead to rapid aging, and if there is a mirror opposite, then it is very difficult to fall asleep.
Do not give mirrors to your relatives or friends, no matter how beautiful they are. This is a sign from the field of magic and esotericism. An invisible and, most importantly, now uncontrollable connection is established between the recipient and the giver of such a present.
How it will affect your relationship is hard to say. Mirrors are generally considered mystical objects, and not only specialists from the field of the unknown, but also scientists are still studying their properties.
Especially it is impossible to give and even buy antique mirrors for the house and, in general, those that already belonged to someone. Such a piece of furniture can bring misfortune to new owners.
6. Candles
Giving candles is a bad omen. But we often, not knowing what to give, especially on New Year, limited to a set of decorative candles. It turns out that such a present for the funeral.
7. Animals
If you gave the desired animal, and it died, it is believed that the deceased animal takes part of the soul of its owner. If you were given a kitten, puppy or guinea pig, then you must definitely give a symbolic amount for it, otherwise the animal will die or run away.
8. Slippers
There are several "bad" versions of this ban. Here is some of them.
It is believed that slippers are an offer to go to the next world. The belief came to people from Asian countries, where dead people are buried in new shoes, most often slippers.
If you present such a gift to a loved one, then you will definitely have a conflict that will cause separation. This applies to both lovers and friends.
9. Wallet
Folk signs warn that a person who receives such a gift may have significant problems with money.
There is a special rule on how to give a wallet. Most importantly, you cannot give an empty wallet or other items whose function is to store something. It is necessary to put money in them in order to make a profit. And the larger the bill, the better.
10. Socks
There is a sign that you can not give socks to your beloved man. Wearing a gift pair, the husband can leave home forever. And smart daughters-in-law, who believe that their spouses are sitting under their mother's skirt, using this belief, hint to their mothers-in-law to present such a woolen product to their sons.