Love games.
Love games are perhaps the easiest of all outdoor games.
Magdalena the Pretender
Erotic caresses are best to start from the upper body, above the waist, and only after that gradually move to the lower body of the partner (partner).
If a woman is initially shy and resists caresses, a man should treat this with understanding and not rush her. And, of course, do not reproach and do nothing against her will.
Be patient and gentle, admire her body and gradually accustom your partner to caresses. Over time, the woman's sexual reaction will awaken, she will stop resisting, and you will be duly rewarded.
Everyone knows that lips and breasts (most of all nipples), genitals react to affection, but not everyone knows about other erogenous zones.
Touching the hair, the scalp is pleasant for everyone. Scientists believe that pleasure hormones (endorphins) are produced at the same time. A light massage of the head of a partner (partner), stroking, playing with hair will bring great pleasure.
The ears and earlobes have many sensitive nerve endings. Touching them stimulates the sexual centers of the brain. A light touch with fingertips, lips, tongue, hair, gentle biting is pleasant for both men and women.
For most people, the erogenous zone is the base of the neck at the back of the head. Touch the skin of the partner (partner) where the hair begins to grow, stroke with the back of your hand or sort through the hair with your fingers, playing on the hollow at the base, as in musical instrument and he/she purrs like a cat. This area can be caressed with lips, your own hair, a light cloth, a feather. The shoulders and neck are also an erogenous zone.
The skin on the face and under the chin is also very sensitive. Put the head of your partner (partner) on your knees, put a pillow under it so that he (she) is comfortable, and do a light, light massage, but not in the way masseuses do, but barely touching, almost on the verge of tickling, only feeling velvety skin with your fingertips, and the partner (sha) felt the warmth and caress of your hands.
The erogenous zone is the skin of the hands from the wrist to the elbows. The inner surface of the shoulder and elbows is also sensitive to caress. Light touches on the skin of a partner (partner) with your fingertips, tongue, feather, scarf, your own panties or hair will give him (her) an inexpressible sensation.
The armpits, the abdomen, the skin around the navel in many people also love affection.
The chest is very sensitive to caresses. Many women like it when a man squeezes her lightly or strokes her in a circular motion. There are no women who are indifferent to the caress of the breast. As well as there are no men who are indifferent to the female breast.
For erotic stimulation of the breast, it must be touched very gently. A woman's breasts are best caressed from the periphery to the center. Many men want to squeeze and crush their partner's breasts like dough. You don't have to do this, even if you really like it that way. This is a very sensitive erogenous zone that requires gentle touches. There are many nerve endings in the chest, and it does not tolerate rudeness, strong pressure, flattening. The woman will be hurt, unpleasant, although she most likely will not say this, but her erotic mood will disappear.
When a man caresses his chest, as if distilling its soft tissues from the armpits to the nipples, the woman experiences an inexpressible sensation. These movements are a bit like those that a woman herself makes when pumping. breast milk It is not for nothing that women who are breastfeeding experience an almost orgasmic state when someone helps them to pump. Perhaps it is difficult for a man to imagine these sensations, since erotically, the chest area in men is less sensitive, although it is also an erogenous zone.
If the partner skillfully caresses the partner's breasts, then in the lower abdomen she has a feeling of warmth and pleasant heaviness, similar to what a man feels when he is excited at the sight of a desired woman.
The breast also reacts to heat, so when the partner covers the woman's breast with his hands or cups it with his hands, it becomes elastic, the nipples swell.
Stimulation of the nipples for many women gives great pleasure, while arousal increases, and the external genitalia are filled with lubrication. They can be slightly twisted, sipped up, kissed, licked, sucked, lightly nibbled.
At horny woman nipples harden and seem to be pointed (this is called nipple erection) and become even more sensitive to caresses. The nipples of the breasts of some women are so excitable that there may be an orgasm even without sexual intercourse.
Some women resist when a partner wants to caress her breasts. This is caused by modesty or a false belief that her breasts are not beautiful, too big or too small. How wrong they are! Any breast (if any) is beautiful and erotic - both large and small. The partner should treat such a partner’s reaction with understanding and tact and gently explain that she is wrong.
The erotic reaction of the breast is completely independent of its size. Even small breasts can be easily excitable, while large ones can be less reactive.
Many men say they like female breast, starting from the second size, but not more than the fifth. Lovers very big breast not so much. And this is well justified. The breast of a woman, in addition to the glandular tissue, contains adipose tissue, so that in a large breast there is a lot of adipose tissue, and it is not very sensitive. big breasts you can even crush and squeeze, but for the erotic arousal of a woman this will not do much.
In ancient Chinese treatises on the Tao of Love, erotic kisses and caressing of the breast were given great attention. Tao teacher Wu Son writes that caressing the breast "relaxes the body and soul of a woman, makes her happier and freer."
During sexual foreplay, a man should caress not only the woman's breasts, but also the neck, shoulders, earlobes, nape, affecting those erogenous zones that he already knows about.
It is never harmful to experiment, and suddenly an unusual erogenous zone will be discovered.
Sexologists call her wandering. For example, in some women, the erogenous zone is the skin between the shoulder blades, in others, a certain part of the lower back or buttocks. AT scientific literature such cases are also described when the inner surface of the knee is the erogenous zone, and pressure on it leads to orgasm. Imagine how lucky such women are - to experience pleasure, you just need to stroke or press on this area, and it will fly up into the skies! But for this, the wandering erogenous zone must be discovered. A woman can live her whole life without experiencing pleasure from sex, but it turns out that she and her partner simply did not know that there is a coveted erogenous zone on her body that will give her inexpressible sensations.
An important form of lovemaking that causes sexual arousal.
kisses After the hug, the partners move on to more passionate love games. It all depends on the desire of partners. Usually physical contact between lovers begins with kisses. This is an important form of lovemaking that causes sexual arousal.
There are dozens of forms of kissing the mouth. Historical, national, cultural, religious factors have left their mark on the kissing technique. AT different times and at different peoples the attitude towards loving kisses was the most controversial, for example, among many peoples of Asia, Africa, kisses did not exist at all, in many countries of the East, a kiss is considered an obscene phenomenon, and in ancient Greece, a kiss as an expression of erotic love was not known at all.
Most sexologists in a kiss distinguish three points: touch (touch), taste and smell. Some believe that the kiss becomes erotic only with puberty, beginning as a primitive caress of a child, others find that the kiss of lovers attracts with its taste and reveals the connection between the digestive and genital organs. Some experts assign the leading role in the kiss to the sense of smell, and note that men react more sharply to the smell (perhaps that is why some of them prefer kissing parts of the body with the strongest odors). The most common is a lip kiss, usually carried out by the inside of the lips, with the capture of the lower lip or both, depending on the preferences of the partners. Kisses can be different in strength, duration, they can be subtly sensual, passionate or with some aggressiveness. The most intimate is the tongue kiss, in which the tongue lightly touches the lips of the partner or his tongue. Some sexologists claim that without a tongue there is no true love kiss, since the tongue is generally one of the most important organs of kiss variations. The erogenous possibilities of kissing are not limited to mouth-to-mouth kisses. Kisses of any part of the body, primarily erogenously excitable (eyes, earlobes, nipples of the mammary glands, etc., up to the genitals), can not only precede sexual intercourse, but also accompany it. In kissing the most intimate parts of the body, it is important to show a sense of proportion and have the consent of both partners.
The technique of kissing is unusually rich and varied. It also depends on the participation in it of the tongue, teeth, breath and lips, and on the place that is kissed, and the customs adopted in different countries and among different peoples. In the African kiss, for example, primarily tactile and olfactory external influences are involved, since the kissers must rub their noses against each other.
Lip caress is the ability to touch, stroke, exert pressure, suck and even "hug" with them. The type and intensity of the kiss must be selected, carefully observing the reaction of the partner. When kissing, in no case should you impose unpleasant caresses that cause negative emotions.
Breathing also plays an important role in kissing: during inhalation, as you know, there is a feeling of cold, and when you exhale, you feel a stream of warm air. Bringing the lips closer to the partner's skin and irritating it with breathing, you can gently act on the nerve endings on the skin that are sensitive to heat and cold (most of these receptors are on the neck, back of the head, back, and also in the groin). The alternating currents of warm and cold air irritate the hairs of the epidermis (the surface layer of the skin), causing a sensation of tickling and excitement in anticipation of subsequent caresses.
The kiss also involves the teeth. With your teeth, you can lightly bite the folds of the skin, and in some cases - if it is pleasant for a woman - even make light bites. Bites to the neck or shoulder occur most often at the wrong time. foreplay, and at the moment of the highest sexual arousal - at the onset of orgasm. At these moments, physical pleasure reaches such a tension that it almost develops into a painful sensation. After such passionate caresses, visual evidence of love often remains on the neck or chest of partners - red or bluish-purple imprints of teeth.
The next great "ally" of a kiss is the tongue. This flexible, mobile, smooth and moist muscular organ is perfectly adapted for a wide variety of caresses: stroking, tickling, gentle touches, etc. Caresses with the tongue are much gentler and more delicate than hand caresses, especially in places covered with mucous membranes, where saliva moistens relieves the discomfort associated with dryness and roughness of the skin of the fingers.
The choice of kissing technique depends, of course, on where they kiss. Kissing a lady's hand is a typical Polish custom, but although our gentlemen have been doing this for several centuries, I dare say they have not fully used and still use all the sexual virtues of this kiss. No woman, of course, can remain indifferent at the sight of a man's head obediently bowed over her hand.
Until recently, many of us believed that the kiss of a woman's hand was limited to the touch of men's lips on the back of the hand, in other words, on that part of it that is least sexually innervated. This, of course, is not very important if you kiss the hand of your aunt or grandmother, but when it comes to the woman you are interested in, then the matter takes on a completely different turn. It must be remembered that the nerve endings that are sensitive to touch and erotic stimuli are located on the inside of the palm, as well as in the depressions between the fingers.
A kiss on the hand is one of the first caresses of the early stage of rapprochement of partners, which can charm a woman and arouse her interest in intimacy, if an important condition is met: this kiss must become a real work of love art, and not a banal, expressionless touch of male lips . A woman's hand is easily accessible to a man already in the first days of acquaintance, and by kissing her, he has a great opportunity to demonstrate his erotic culture. You can, for example, dip your lips into the recess of the palm, lightly stroking it with the tip of your tongue and touching the lines of the grooves that form an intricate individual pattern, or penetrate the gaps between the fingers with the tip of your tongue and gently rub and tickle their side surfaces. Caresses with the tongue, however, like all others, should be as intermittent as possible in order to avoid monotony and monotony.
Speaking about the technique of kissing, you should pay attention to kissing the eyes. It turns into a very gentle caress when a woman begins to quickly blink her eyelashes during a kiss, additionally irritating the surface of her partner's lips.
Kisses in the area of the ears and neck affect (through breathing) primarily on the temperature sensitivity of the skin, since in these places, as well as on the shoulders and back, the largest number nerve endings that respond to cold and heat. These caresses can also alternate with light stroking of the skin at the base of the hair with the lips or the tip of the tongue.
An important place in the art of love is given to kisses in the ear area, especially the earlobes and small depressions adjacent to them from below. In most women, and often in men, this area reacts intensely to sexual stimuli: to breathing, light rubbing, tickling the surface of the skin between the ear and the edge of the hair with the tongue. In addition, sucking on the earlobe, light pressure on it with lips or biting with teeth, and also tickling the tip of the ear with the tongue (in a fast intermittent rhythm) are very exciting. You can think of half a dozen more different caresses, but we should not forget that for some people touching the ear area causes only a tickle: for them this area does not respond to sexual caresses.
Girl kisses are divided into three types: moderate, trembling and clinging. If a girl, yielding to strength, puts her weak-willed lips on his lips and freezes, then this is a moderate kiss. If she is a little inflamed and ready to bite his lip with her teeth, while ordering her lower lip to tremble, and her upper lip to be mobile, then this kiss is called trembling. And, finally, a piercing kiss: the girl covers her lover's eyes with her palm, then gently grabs his lips with her mouth and digs into them with the tip of her tongue.
For a girl who has not yet had sexual intercourse with a man and who has not completely trusted her partner, there are the following three types of kisses.
1. Limited kiss. In this case, the man persuades the woman to kiss him. She is overcome with shyness, but runs her lips over the man's. However, she does not make an attempt to press her lips to his lips or suck them.
2. Trembling kiss. In this case, the man holds the woman's lower lip between his lips. The woman would also like to answer him, but she cannot because of her shyness. Yet her lips tremble a little, tremble. She pretends to want to take her lips away, although she really does not feel such a desire. When a man makes an attempt to end the kiss, loosening the tension of his lips, she immediately presses his lips with hers. In this case, the woman's lips tremble, which is why the kiss got its name.
3. Exploring kiss. In this case, the woman takes a little more initiative. She is gathering courage. She closes her lover's eyes with her palm, then closes her own eyes, takes her lower lip and caresses it with her tongue or lips. This gives her great pleasure.
In addition to those described above, there are seven more types of kisses on the lips that are commonly used by a man.
1. Direct kiss. In this case, the man and woman are face to face, the man takes the woman's lower lip between his lips.
2. Kiss from the side. The same as in the previous description, but the woman's face is at an angle in relation to the partner.
3. Kiss with a twist. The man turns the woman's face towards him with one hand, with the other he holds her chin and kisses her on the lips.
4. Pressing kiss. The man presses the lips of the woman with his lips. If the tongue is involved, then the kiss is called sucking.
5. Kiss with strong pressure. A man squeezes a woman's lower lip with a large and index finger and sort of rolls it into a ball. Then he caresses his lip with his tongue and sucks it.
6. Mutual kiss. A woman sucks her lover's lower lip, and he sucks her upper lip.
7. Kiss "medical jar". This is when one of the partners holds both lips of the second between his lips and sucks them, while making a whistling sound.
If a woman holds the lower lip of a man with her lips, then he experiences delicious pleasure, tasting the nectar of the woman's upper lip. If a man sucks a woman's lower lip, she cannot enjoy the man's upper lip unless he is clean-shaven and wears a mustache.
In addition to those described above, there are 4 more types of kisses.
1. Harmonious kiss. Kiss on the sacrum, navel, armpit or chest (man). It is called harmonious, as it is not too gentle, and not rough.
2. Forced kiss. A kiss on the chest (of a woman), cheeks, and the outer area of the vagina is called violent, as it requires great passion.
3. Chaste kiss. Kiss between the breasts or on the waist.
4. Gentle kiss. Kiss on the forehead and eyes. They are very soft and gentle.
Kissing gets its name from the situations in which it occurs. For example:
1. Passion-inducing kiss. A woman lovingly looks at a sleeping man and kisses him. The kiss is called so because it causes desire in both partners.
2. Distracting kiss. When a man is busy with some kind of work or, on the contrary, is dissatisfied with a woman, or does not want to have sexual intercourse, or thinks about something that is not related to sex, tries to fall asleep during intercourse, a woman kisses him, distracting him from extraneous thoughts.
3. Signal kiss. A man, returning home late, kisses the face of a falling asleep woman, arousing desire in her. Sometimes a woman resorts to this technique to check if a man wants intimacy.
4. Kiss reflection. A kiss (or air kiss) of a shadow or reflection of a partner in a mirror or in calm water or on a lighted wall; portrait kiss. Such a kiss is carried out if the lovers feel the desire for intimacy, but have not yet touched each other. With this kiss, a man hints to a woman about his intention. A woman with the same purpose can kiss her lover in a theater or public place.
When a woman, gently stroking the body of a lying man, casually lowers her head on his legs, pretends to be asleep, and then kisses his thighs or thumb his feet to ignite his passion, then it is the "inquiring kiss". A woman tells a man about her desire, but does not know how he treats her.
In a word, if a woman uses a "demonstrative" or "questioning" kiss, a man must answer her. If a woman kisses a man or embraces him, calling for intercourse, the man should do the same. In this case, sexual intercourse can be successful and satisfy the partner. If one of the partners is passive, then the sexual act does not achieve its goal.
The sexual sensitivity of the skin, mouth and lips is expressed in each person purely individually. Caressing the tongue inside the mouth, for example, in some women can cause a feeling of great sexual pleasure, while in others, not very experienced and experienced in love, a feeling of disgust and other unpleasant emotions. Therefore, when kissing a woman and seeking her favor, it is necessary to carefully monitor how she reacts to sexual caresses, since this is the best barometer that registers "weather conditions" in intimate relationships. The most common misconception of most lovers is the postulate: what is pleasant to me is also pleasant to my partner. In life, unfortunately, it often happens differently, and the inability, and sometimes unwillingness to "give the floor" to a woman, often turns into family discord and loss of trusting contact with a loved one.
Possession of the technique of kissing allows you to caress not only a woman, but also a man. In many men, the skin of the back, thighs, shoulders, neck and ears has great sexual sensitivity. Extreme grief in women is caused by men who are afraid of being tickled (and it is more common in them than in women), as well as partners who are uncomfortable with any physical affection.
Unfortunately, many men prefer tactile caresses only in the genital area. Touching other parts of the body does not give them any pleasure, and sometimes even unpleasant. When it comes to caresses and kisses, then the best partners are men who love and willingly accept manifestations of female tenderness. They are easier to find mutual language in various sexual games and it is more pleasant to communicate.
To a large extent, the armpits, groin and inner thighs respond to kisses. Shaving armpit hair makes it very accessible for caresses. sensitive skin armpit.
Continuing to explore the world of sensuality, we finally came to the kiss of the chest - an organ innervated to no lesser extent than the vagina and clitoris.
The mechanism of sexual sensitivity of the nipples is developed gradually: the path from the first and poorly perceived caresses by a woman over time will lead her to a very high level of excitability. Prolonged rhythmic irritation of the nipples (after other foreplay) can even end in a complete orgasm, and not only the breast, but also the clitoris and vagina, which have not been directly sexually affected, fall into the sphere of sensual pleasure.
Caresses of the breast, due to nerve irritations transmitted from the nipples to the genitals, cause an intense flow of blood into the vagina, to the labia and clitoris, as well as an erection of the uterus, usually observed during orgasm, and vice versa - irritations in the vagina and clitoris lead, respectively, to an erection nipples. This relationship was well known to scientists of previous generations. It is no coincidence that, for example, in one of the drawings by Leonardo da Vinci, depicting a man and a woman at the moment of intercourse, inside female body the lines connecting the nipples of the breast with the vagina and uterus are indicated.
Where and what else can you kiss? Everywhere and everything, because passion knows no limits.
Tongue tickling the clitoris and vaginal vestibule may be part of the foreplay, preparing the woman for intercourse, or self-caress to bring her to orgasm. If such kisses are part of the foreplay, which should be followed by intercourse, then for inexperienced women their role is twofold: firstly, they sexually arouse and, secondly, the vulva area is moistened due to saliva, since natural mucus secretions are very small.
Kissing and tickling the tongue of the vulva and clitoris gradually, after some time, awaken their sensuality, activating the activity of the receptors located there. The opinion that a woman from the very beginning of her sexual life is susceptible to sexual irritations in certain areas of the body is absolutely erroneous. Sometimes, of course, it happens that way, but in most cases it needs to be taught this - as they teach a novice student in this or that business the basics of mastery.
It is safe to say without prejudice that there are no cold women. However, this does not mean that you cannot meet a woman who is in sexual hibernation! The thing is that they could not or did not want to wake her up.
Kissing a woman in intimate places, one should not forget about the natural modesty and embarrassment inherent in an inexperienced partner. Therefore, you should always start with the most gentle caresses and kisses of hands, lips, neck, and only after them you can gradually switch to caresses in the vulva area. Although kissing in the vulva is the most effective remedy awakening erotic sensations, a woman often argues differently, giving a resolute rebuff to "immodest", from her point of view, encroachments on the part of a partner. With this in mind, it must be borne in mind that any use of force in this case is absolutely contraindicated. A man's weapon is tenderness, once again tenderness and again tenderness.
Kissing and caressing the genitals is applicable to both a woman and a man, but in the latter case, the situation requires a completely different approach. Genital kisses are caresses that make both men and women experience intense sexual arousal. Women, by the way, are very susceptible to them during the awakening of sensuality. For men, especially young ones, these caresses act somewhat differently. Boys are usually hypersexual, and they do not need additional stimulants. A woman who tries to excite her young partner with sophisticated caresses may eventually direct his potency in a different direction and remain sexually unsatisfied. Stroking and kissing the male body before intercourse can significantly reduce its duration, as a man reaches the peak of sexual arousal even before the introduction of the penis into the vagina.
There is a different attitude towards this kind of caresses in men and women who have crossed the forty-year milestone. At this age, the curves of sexual tension in men and women again diverge, but this time the woman reaches the maximum of her sexual abilities, and the potency of the man is on the wane. This usually manifests itself in an excessive delay in sexual intercourse, and sometimes in a weak erection (insufficient tension) of the male penis. An excitable woman can compensate for her partner's shortcomings by increasing his sexual tension with skillful and varied caresses. At this age, stroking the glans penis significantly increases the intensity of erection and increases excitability. In this case, one should not, of course, forget that the head is more innervated on the underside, in the region of the frenulum. foreskin, as well as at the edge of the external opening of the urethra. Finding the most sensitive places is not at all difficult - it is enough to carefully monitor the partner's reactions during caresses and navigate them.
And one more remark related to youth. In most cases, the sexual activity of young partners is quite high and they are reluctant to look at how a woman seizes the initiative from them. There are, of course, also such young men who love to be caressed, obviously adhering to passive behavior in love games. In this phase of love, a woman must play the role of a kind of "limiter". The longer the path to the final goal, the more the man falls in love and the more fully the sexual virtues of the woman are manifested. At the same time, one cannot demand prolonged exciting caresses from a man, not allowing him to experience a feeling of complete sexual relaxation. Such a practice can lead to the appearance of various ailments in him: a feeling of heaviness and painful tension in the lower abdomen, unpleasant pains in the scrotum, lack of sensitivity in the groin, etc.
So, the main meaning of the prelude that precedes sexual intercourse and contacts between lovers who are on the verge of a full-fledged sexual life lies in tactile caresses and kisses. You can advise the young to develop and enrich their love art and the culture of caresses, without rushing to move on to intimacy because haste in love is a very dangerous and unforgivable mistake.
Caresses during a love act - KAMA-SUTRA (the art of love).
Caresses during the act of love.
He takes her breasts in his mouth and sucks, takes her ear in his mouth and kisses, takes out his penis and kisses her on the navel or pubis. Kisses on lips, eyes, shoulders, curves of arms, neck and curls of hair. She presses him to her chest, kisses his nipples, hugs his neck, touches his chest, takes out his cock and takes it in her mouth, kisses him on the scrotum, licks with her tongue, kisses the cock from the base to the head.
"Playing the flute" - he touches her anus with his fingers, as if closing it in time with the movements of the penis. He touches a member of her breasts, nipples. She presses his cock, rubs her breasts on the scrotum, jumps off, puts him on her chest and takes the cock in her mouth, thus ending the love act.
A light touch on the base of the penis and fingering the scrotum turns a man into a tamed tiger. Kissing the head of the penis, taking it in the mouth and sucking gives pleasure to both the man and the woman.
Knowing of limits.
A man should limit his desire to one act of love. At the request of the woman, he can repeat it, but not earlier than an hour later. An extreme measure of lovers (or after prolonged abstinence) three times a day.
Rules of love.
Caresses precede the act of love and should be four times longer than it. The ways of touch are countless. If a woman does not receive affection, she is like a smoldering hearth. A woman receiving a man's affection is like the sun giving life.
A man becomes twice a man, desirable and taking, if he possesses a woman.
The act of love should be started only when it is not the mind that desires it, but the body. The desire of a woman, reinforced by her caress, will always arouse the desire of a man. The enjoyment of desire will be complete when it is first received by a woman. After the act of love, a grateful woman should become a mother to a weary man and take care of him like a child.
Love acts should be varied. This is a woman's concern. A man should be obedient and strong.