Resentment is not worth blood, but only oblivion. Pythagoras
Resentment in a relationship means throwing extra stones on them. The stronger the offense, the greater the burden on your feelings. And even the strongest will sooner or later collapse under this load. The ability to forgive is available only to the wise, the ability to ask for forgiveness is the lot of the strong in spirit.
You can’t accumulate resentment against loved ones, they don’t want to harm you, they don’t realize it. And if a person is not close, why pay attention to him at all?
Fate reserves for each of us a whole arsenal of hardships and trials. (Manilius)
The most valuable skill is the ability to prevent resentment before it occurs. Democritus
If you don’t have the strength to forgive, it’s usually enough to remember how many times you yourself have been forgiven.
You can simply create a shell around yourself. And as the fur saves from the cold wind, so this barrier will negate all external insults. (Leonardo da Vinci)
We remember the good for a short time, the bad - for the rest of our lives. Pierre Buast
To treat with understanding means either to completely forgive or to cultivate even more resentment in yourself. (Unknown author)
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You cannot humiliate a person without humiliating yourself with him. (Booker Tagliaferro Washington)
Memory and conscience have always diverged and will continue to disagree about whether to forgive insults. (George Savile Halifax)
Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if this woman has a noble and proud heart. Navarre M.
Resentment and hatred cannot be satisfied - the only way to heal them is forgiveness.
An offensive word spoken impulsively is not as offensive as an offensive thoughtful one. To say it in a rush does not mean to do it. This can be forgiven.
A harmless person is a person who you send to hell, and he will return rested and with magnets as a gift.
Smart people don't get offended, they draw conclusions. Unknown author
Every reasonable argument hurts. Stendhal (Henri Marie Bayle)
There is a saying that one must speak of the dead either well or nothing. In my opinion, this is stupidity. The truth always remains the truth. If it comes to that, you have to hold back when talking about the living. They can be offended, unlike the dead. Christy A.
As warm clothing protects against cold, so exposure protects against resentment. Increase patience and peace of mind, and resentment, no matter how bitter it may be, will not touch you.
If you were offended, do not think why they did it, but answer the question why you let them do it.
If someone offended you, take revenge courageously. Stay calm and this will be the beginning of your revenge, then forgive - this will be the end of it.
Previously, I rejoiced at his every message, then with bated breath I waited for his call ... And then something went wrong ... and dead silence ... well, now it makes me happy just his appearance in the undressed GUESTS ...
Resentment has more power over a woman than love, especially if this woman has a noble and proud heart. (Margarita of Navarre)
this is not a quote, this is a cry from the heart ... the devil pulled me to go to my classmates, there I found out that my beloved man was married ...))) it is impossible to describe feelings and pain ... I had the strength to write a message wishing happiness) I am strong and will survive! But now it hurts...
Silence and faith - alas, not my motto! I will not allow myself to be offended for a gift. This is my character, if you like, my whim. I was not brought up to be silent after a blow!
Well, why do you offend me even in a dream, now I’m scared to sleep ... I used to be happy to see you in my dreams ... and now I ask you to get out of them from my life, please don’t torment me.
An insult is easier to endure hearing than sight. Publius
If you hurt me again, then I will be the same as before. Remind me which one? I will wear Short dress, stockings, shoes on high heels and I'll go for a walk ... over your heart, so much so that the heels will be erased!
At first you are silent, because you came up with a reason to be offended ... Then it will be embarrassing to break the silence. And then, when everything is already forgotten, we will simply forget the language in which we understood each other ...
When they try to smear you with your face on the asphalt, you need an awesome strong desire to get up and prove with a smile on your face that it DID NOT WORK!!!
I swallowed tears so often that I just salted myself. But now I don’t freeze in winter, and in summer I keep moisture well.
There is no need to offend me, I am a vulnerable girl, almost immediately into tears ... And then, with tearful eyes, it is so difficult to understand who was hit with a shovel ...
Because of each offense, one cannot renounce a friend. As-Samarkandi
They say the truth: “Time heals”!!! Some time passed and the pain really began to slowly dull, some kind of resentment does not melt away, and the emptiness from the heart slowly begins to disappear ...
Insults from those in power must be endured not only patiently, but with a cheerful face: if
And even better - to offend and be offended yourself. (Unknown author)
I met and fell in love a good man, yes, good. And he still loves his ex-wife and repeats her name in a dream ... How painful it is to live with it, what a strong love men can have ... It's just enviable to tears !!!
If you are offended, your offender has succeeded.
Are you not together? But if you really love him, with all your heart and soul, if you can’t fall asleep without him ... maybe it’s not too late to call him, maybe he has been waiting for your call all this time? (After all, not much time has passed)
The most terrible predator on earth is a drunk offended blonde with lipstick in one hand and a phone in the other, who does not care at all. Even if she is driving.
This is because you have not forgiven your husband. We decided to live together with our heads, but only your bodies together at a certain time at a certain point in space. And love is gone forever.
Swallowed resentment will sooner or later come out in a certain form in a natural way.
Have you been offended? Do not rush into battle and do not rush to take revenge, just sit on the river bank and wait for the corpse of the offender to float past ... (Lao Tzu. Chinese wisdom)
At first you are silent, because you came up with a reason to be offended ... then it will be embarrassing to break the silence ... and then, when everything is already forgotten, we will simply forget the language in which we understood each other ...
At first we are silent, because we came up with a reason to be offended ... Then it will be embarrassing to break the silence ... And then, when everything is already forgotten, we will simply forget the language in which we understood each other.
Let someone consider my character difficult, and me difficult, proud. The main thing is that in my life there are people who are simple and easy with me, but difficult without me!
Only a woman can distort her life with one act: marry another, offended by her beloved, and then name her son after him.
So you sit, waiting for him, you don’t go anywhere all day. And then he will call and say: “I won’t come to you today!” And so it becomes bitter and insulting in my soul !!! I think someone will understand me!!
Never remember past hurts. (Menander)
The greatest offense that can be done to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest. Shakespeare W.
Just one phrase ... Like a knife to the heart ...
Grief does not show its ulcers; humiliation does not count insults. Thomas de Quincey
The best means of defense is an attack;
It is easier to offend than to endure an insult.
lot beautiful women these are unfounded accusations that tarnish their name. At least go to a plastic surgeon ... to mutilate ...
Never remember past hurts.
It hurts not to be able to forgive. And it hurts to say goodbye. And a man is torn in half by cruel beasts - pride and love.
Sooner or later, each of us in life will have a moment when the people closest to you make a choice not in your favor, not realizing that it hurts and hurts you to watch this ...
Many are harmed by those who offend one. (Unknown author)
Most of all I don't like your number on my phone. I hate your sudden calls that do not relieve me of melancholy. I don't miss our past meetings. I no longer open my soul to you. And you didn’t offend me ... Only one day I became completely indifferent ...
Come, crack your face, step back and smile!
Resentment and resentment are like poison that you drink in the hope that others will be poisoned. Happiness begins with forgiveness.
You know, but the heaviest insult is easier to bear ... if you swallow it, along with the offender !!! Nothing hurts a person more than pieces of their own happiness.
Beware of the one who did not answer your blow. (George Bernard Shaw)
The strength of the offense does not depend on the nature of the offense. The strength of resentment depends on the proximity of the one who offends you ... The closer the person, the stronger the resentment!
If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded. (Konstantin Kushner)
From all insults, salvation is in oblivion. Publius
It hurts him - he offends you, it hurts you - you offend him, he takes revenge on you, and you do the same ... So you beat your head against the same wall from different sides and you don’t care that the door is on the right!
The offender sins not so much as the one who allows the offense. (Basil I the Macedonian)
It's a shame if you are fired not for the abuses committed, but for the ones that were not. (Valery Afonchenko)
they will decide that they really hurt you, they will certainly repeat it. Lucius Annaeus Seneca (junior)
I quietly argue with mine. I don't yell. I don't throw tantrums. I just take it toothbrush and silently clean the toilet with it. Quietly.
It is very easy to turn a compliment into an insult or an insult. Eric Bern
Small-minded people are sensitive to petty offenses; people of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. La Rochefoucauld
An insult is easier to endure hearing than sight. (Publius Sir)
there is a kind of people who will spit in your soul and will still behave as if it was you who offended them and should ask for forgiveness
I haven’t drunk coffee yet, how am I going to leave? Is it possible, sir, that on a festive night the guests at the table are divided into two classes? Some - the first, and others, as this vile mean barman put it, the second freshness?
Someday I will be very drunk and will tell you everything, everything that I have accumulated in my soul ... and you will go nuts, you will honestly go nuts ...
You know, sometimes you write a message to a person, not with your hands, but with your soul. You press: send and the heart is a small fraction somewhere in the throat. And then he stops and a stone in the stomach. He read it, but did not answer ... it feels like you are holding out a piece of your soul to a person, and he will face you in the dirt.
Often it is better not to notice the offense than to avenge it. Publius
Oddly enough, but people are more likely to be offended by someone else's mind than by their own stupidity.
In order not to enter the soul, it is necessary, probably, to put a thick armored door, and instead of a peephole - an optical sight, so that before you let it in, you should take a good look at all the details ...
The greatest offense that can be done to an honest person is to suspect him of being dishonest.
the main value is Forgiving and Understanding, even if resentment swirls, we can hug each other with words - I need you so much ... - And I need you too.
There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult. (Sophia Segur)
My boyfriend calls me: “come out, I drive up, I stood for 5 minutes. he’s not on the street ... I arrived ... I get into the car and grumble for a long time ... He was silent, silent, takes out a bouquet of roses from the back seat with the words Yes, shut up already, happy anniversary !!!
She wanted to be good... Not at all a bitch, as she is now... She didn't want to be cruel... It happened so... it's a pity... But it seems like an angel and not evil... A simple deception...? or maybe not…? She herself does not know yet ... As she matures, she will give an answer ...
If you have offended someone, then try to correct it. Through confession, you will receive forgiveness, and if you try to turn from guilty to right, you will only aggravate your own guilt. Penn William
For a man there is nothing more offensive than to call him a fool, for women to say that she is ugly. Kant I.
People who have not forgiven and have not come to terms with the offense, and especially those who dream of revenge, have a much higher level of stress than those who really forgave and let go.
If someone offended you, do not pout, do not be angry.
It is strange, but sincerely those people who do not mean anything in your life are worried about you and sympathize with you. and those whom you love are indifferent ...
Small-minded people are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything. (Francois de La Rochefoucauld)
A woman is no worse than a computer - all the insults caused, although they are added to the basket, can be removed from there at any moment!)
even if it hurts you, you can fall asleep, but if you hurt another, you will never be able to sleep...
A fool remembers insults, a smart one remembers offenders. (Vladimir Turovsky)
Deep-rooted malice cuts too deep. (William Shakespeare)
I don't mind that he didn't call. I'm sorry that I waited like a fool...
Anyone who thinks that new blessings can make the great ones of this world forget about old grievances is mistaken. (Niccolò Machiavelli)
The phone was treacherously silent. Resentment choked so much that it became nauseating ... A terrible thought flashed through: Is this really the end ?. I listened to my inner voice - silence, and only endless dull It's a dull pain, no, not in the heart ... It must hurt so much when the soul dies ... If only he knew how much it hurts ...
Bearing offence, you cause a new one. Publius
Learn not to be offended. It's very difficult, but so useful!
Free your soul from insults... and you won't notice how the soul will take off!)
In the east there lived a sage who taught his disciples this way:
“People offend in three ways. They may say that you are stupid, they may call you a slave, they may call you mediocre. If this happened to you, remember a simple truth: only a fool will call another a fool, only a slave is looking for a slave in another, only mediocrity justifies what he does not understand himself, with someone else's madness. Therefore, never be offended by anyone, and do not insult yourself.
Start simple: wish all the best to the people who hurt you once.
No need to carry around stupid suitcases of grievances. If only because if the hands are occupied with something bad, then it is impossible to take something good from them.
The wiser a person becomes
the less he finds reasons for resentment.
No one can hurt me if I don't allow it myself.
Mahatma Gandhi ---
You should not be offended by the person who offended you - in his soul he is offended more.
No one is interested in hurting you, no one is waiting for an opportunity to hurt you, everyone is busy guarding their own wound.
The inner world does not tolerate a mess. Take a "broom" and get out in the shower. It's time to finally sweep away all the grievances and sorrows that have accumulated there, losses and disappointments. It's time to finally make room for something truly new, bright, clean and beautiful.
You don't forgive others to heal them. You forgive others to heal yourself.
Chuck Hilling
A happy woman cannot be offended...
You can only make her laugh!
If you have learned not to be offended, it means that you have learned to look into the heart of another.
Defiant behavior towards you is not a personal insult to you, it is a measure of a person's suffering. This is how he shows you how much he hurts and how much compassion he needs.
They may say that you are stupid, they may call you a slave, they may call you mediocre. If this happened to you, remember a simple truth: only a fool will call another a fool, only a slave is looking for a slave in another, only mediocrity justifies what he does not understand himself with someone else's madness. Therefore, never be offended by anyone, and do not insult yourself, so as not to be considered stupid mediocre slaves.
Happy people cannot be evil. Only those who are unhappy themselves try to offend others. Your offender did not try to offend you. He was only projecting onto you what was the real purpose of his aggression. (Anthony de Mello)
The more resentment, the more I lose strength.
Resentment is the problem of the one who is offended. This means that it was you who did not have enough mental strength for this person, it was you who could not cope with yourself.
If you are full of strength, energy, if you feel good simply because it is spring outside, and you feel strength and power in yourself - is a person in such a state capable of being offended by someone? When we are full of energy, resentment passes us by. If we are offended, it means that there is already an outflow of energy somewhere, which means that you have not tracked your condition somewhere and have not taken measures to bring yourself back to normal. So what about other people?
Why are you offended that no one thought of you and did not wash the dishes on your birthday? Why didn't you warn about it yourself, didn't you say? Why are you silently, angrily gritting your teeth, doing something, instead of asking someone to help you? Why do you build dramatic images and feel sorry for yourself to tears? Why? Maybe you want to torture yourself?
Any of our resentment is connected with our feeling dignity in other words, with our ego. That is, we are offended that they underestimated us, did not foresee our desires, did not think about us in the first place.
(quotes from the article "Adult children of resentment" - Maria Petrochenko - Wheel of Life June 2013)
When the same people are around you, it somehow turns out by itself that they enter your life. And having entered your life, after a while they want to change it. And if you do not become the way they want to see you, they are offended. After all, everyone knows exactly how to live in the world. Only my own life for some reason no one can fix it.
Paulo Coelho "The Alchemist"
Do not litter your memory with insults, otherwise there may simply not be room for wonderful moments!
Blaming others is such a small trick to use whenever you don't want to take responsibility for what happens in your life. Use it - and you are guaranteed a life without risk and a slowdown in your own development.
Resentment provides two important benefits that are not easy for people to give up. The first is in condemnation, and the second is in the feeling of being right.
Most people get angry because of grievances that they themselves have made up, giving deep meaning to trifles.
No one is able to offend you without your consent.
I still don't understand why people stay angry at each other for a long time. Life is already unforgivably short, it’s impossible to really do anything, there is so little time that, one might say, it doesn’t exist at all, even if you don’t spend it on all sorts of stupid things like quarrels.
Max Fry
No matter for what reason you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of indignation, and anger is best punished with neglect.
Samuel Johnson
If a donkey kicks you, don't kick him back.Plutarch
Resentment is actually a way of leaving and protecting one's own "I". (Rollo May - The Art of Psychological Counseling)
« Small-minded people are sensitive to petty insults. People of great intelligence notice everything and are not offended by anything.." La Rochefoucauld F.
« If the offensive word turns out to be true, do not blame the offender." Georgiev V.
« Sometimes it is not without benefit to shut up an offender with a witty rebuke; such a rebuke should be brief and not reveal either irritation or rage, but let her know how to bite a little with a calm smile, returning the blow; just as arrows fly off a solid object back to the one who sent them, so an insult seems to fly back from an intelligent and self-controlled speaker and hits the offender." Plato
« No matter for what reason you were insulted, it is best not to pay attention to the insult - after all, stupidity is rarely worthy of outrage, and anger is best punished with neglect.." Johnson S.
« Offenders come and go, don't keep them in your heart. Forgive and let them go.» Gibert W.
« As warm clothing protects against cold, so exposure protects against resentment and resentment. Multiply patience and peace of mind, and resentment, no matter how bitter it may be, will not touch you.." Leonardo da Vinci
« It is just as difficult to stifle a resentment in the beginning as it is to remember it after a few years.» Jean de La Bruyère
« It's easier to be offended than to be offended." Sir P.
« Time heals sorrows and resentments because a person changes: he is no longer who he was. Both the offender and the offended became other people." Pascal b.
« Resentment and resentment are like poison that you drink in the hope that others will be poisoned. Happiness starts with forgiveness." Combden K.
« The ability to protect oneself from threatening injustice is a sign of intelligence, while the unwillingness to repay for the offense caused is a sign of insensitivity.." Democritus
« If you were cursed and you were offended, then the curse has achieved its." Gevorgyan I.
« Do not forgive your servants if they have offended a stranger. Forgive your servants if they offend you." Jizhu Ch.
« Wash the offense received not in blood, but in Lethe, the river of oblivion." Pythagoras
« Beware of the man who did not answer your blow: he will never forgive you and will not allow himself to be forgiven." Show B.
« If you are offended, the enemy has succeeded." Kushner K.
« Do not judge and then you will not need to forgive." Tarasov V.
« It is doubly difficult to endure insults from those people from whom we least have the right to expect them.." Aesop
« Resentment is usually a sharp inner disagreement with the inevitability of what you yourself stubbornly sought.» Yankovsky S.
« The memory of insults is more durable than the memory of good deeds.." Boost P.
« Relationships only get worse from holding grudges.. It is important to be on time deal with resentment. » Afonchenko V.
« There are few people for whom the truth would not sound like an insult.." Segur S.
« Most of all, a person is offended if they question his sense of humor or his right to be unhappy.." Sinclair L.
FUNNY AND FUNNY STATEMENTS, APHORISMS AND QUOTES ABOUT OFFENSE
« A word can offend, a dictionary can hurt." Don Aminado
« A stupid person remembers grievances, a smart one remembers offenders.." Turovsky V.
« Women and elephants never forget a grudge." Munro G.
« Two negatives make an affirmative. Therefore, if they try to mix you with g@vn, just n@shit on it." Yankovsky S.
« If a person cannot swallow an insult, he needs to chew!" Kashcheev E.
« Some swallow resentment, others - the offender." covered S.
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The wise man was asked:
- They say that you know everything, but tell us - what is resentment?
The sage raised a porcelain cup to his lips, slowly drank sake from it and answered:
“Here, there are a few drops of sake left at the bottom of the cup. Do I have any resentment from this? If I don't want it anymore, then I don't care. And if I don’t have enough, then I will find more sake, pour it into the same cup, and the remaining drops will dissolve in it. And then I'll drink them. This is how resentment is, a person decides for himself whether to endlessly torment himself with his resentment, or to make it dissolve with benefit.
Living with resentment is pretty easy. The mechanism of resentment simplifies a lot. I am good - they are bad, so I was offended. Resentment removes guilt. Resentment even justifies. But if you take offense for a long time and for a lot, then after a while you can find yourself beautiful, living in a bad and offensive world among bad and offensive people. And if you are not offended, then questions will arise mostly to yourself. And then you can feel yourself not the smartest, not the most right and not the most beautiful in the world, but at the same time live among good people and not in the worst of the worlds.
The husband is offended by his wife because he thought she would guess that he needed a white shirt tomorrow.
The wife pouts at her husband because she thought he would think to buy her flowers.
The child is offended by the parents, because they should have guessed that he needed a new constructor, etc.
That is, first we come up with how other people should behave. Then we make sure that they do not behave this way. And we resent them for it. This is normal, because in a lunatic asylum, something else does not happen.
There is nothing worse than the anger of people who were once close to us. Unlike the rest of the world, they know all our secrets, all weak spots and every pain point. And when they get angry, they hit with all their might, as hard as they can. And they consider themselves entitled to do this - precisely because they were once close and enjoyed our trust. So, once again opening your soul to someone, it would be nice to remember that this person can someday become a former loved one ...
Who will I be able to amaze with this hackneyed truth?
Words born of resentment, do not rush to pronounce.
Do not rush to offend a friend with your injustice,
Drive him suddenly into a corner, even though he is not weaker at all.
He's just a little nicer. he will silently wait out the rage.
And the sooner you cool down, the bitterer your departure will be.
And then shame will wake up in you. do not rush to part with him.
A friend just smiles sadly. Like tears, the blood will be wiped from the soul.
Socrates never took offense. He rightly said that this either does not concern him, or if it does, then rightly so. If you are offended by a person, then he is higher, smarter and more worthy than you. So take an example from him, reach out to his level. And if he is lower, more stupid and less worthy than you, then, being offended by him, you exalt him with your offense, and humiliate yourself.
A person offended you, and you take it and do him good, give him the warmth and caress of your soul, and the knot will untie, the anchor will fall from your heart. After that, you will begin to live and breathe easier. Through such victories with love in the places of your defeat, the heart, step by step, victory after victory, will become pure.
We waste so much time, tormented by grievances that in a year we will not remember. No, one must devote one's life to actions and feelings worthy of a person. Let great thoughts, true affections, immortal deeds inspire us. After all, life is so short to waste it on trifles.
Even if you offended me, why do I need your apology? It's your life and your actions. We make our life with our actions. And if we do wrong, then we run into trouble. And how to act - right or wrong? There is freedom of choice here.
No matter how much you are offended, people still need to believe, otherwise you will be like a hermit in a cave, who is on the alert even in a dream. Danger can never be avoided anyway. To live even then is mortally dangerous, even fatal at the end of life.
There is nothing more tenacious than hopeless love. Mutual love might get bored. Passionate love turns into friendship or hatred. But unrequited love will never completely leave the heart, so resentment cements it so firmly.
I never get angry with anyone. No man can do anything that would deserve such a reaction from me. You get angry with people when you feel that their actions are important. I haven't felt anything like this in a long time.