Friends, this is not an applied article. There are no specifics and step-by-step instructions on how to find happiness. The article is the author's reflections without pretensions to originality and genius. Low expectations are the key to restful sleep. :)
Introduction
My friends are divided into two camps: while some willingly share their experiences and give wise advice on how to get married, others sigh that there are no normal men left in this world.
You know, if I didn't personally know these all-round beautiful girls from the disappointed group, I could safely assume that they overestimate their price or leave no chance for normal guys. But it seems to be something else.
Maybe some girls just tend to notice the wrong men? We fall in love with the wrong people, and then we ourselves suffer and cry at night. Yes, of course, in life there are not the most simple situations. But, to be honest, there is no such thing that someone alone is to blame.
Where to find a normal guy
Well, okay, one day you took and grew. I understood and accepted that you like pompous assholes. But you get tired of it too. Any drama, even the most ornate one, sometimes gets overwhelmed, and you want something normal and real. And here a reasonable question arises: where and how to find a normal guy?
If there was some kind of magical place, sort of, where all normal men would be hidden, then, probably, the girls would have lined up worse than for the clothes of the new H&M collection with some famous designer. The girls who graduated from the courses of the guru of women's practices Pavel Rakov would certainly be brought there on special buses, and all broken hearts would be sent for compulsory rehabilitation.
Alas, there is no such place of concentrated male power. Or, I don't know about it. It is clear that all key life meetings always occur completely by chance and unpredictably. But here is a simple applied question: is it possible to artificially increase this probability?
girlish thoughts out loud
I went to the people (on Telegram) and wrote to my friends asking them to tell me where they meet and are looking for non-random connections. The reaction of the girls was funny: from “Well, we talked normally, An, what are you starting” to “A very difficult question. I've never met a normal person." Summed up a friend who wrote: "Oh, Anh, normal guys are an endangered species."
Among the popular answers to the question of where to meet, if you are very lucky, were the university, work, interest clubs, car services, sports clubs, friendly parties, bars and cafes. One friend suggested that Romeo could be safely guarded at some fashionable intellectual parties, although the girl herself admitted that she “isn’t working yet.”
Places vs life hacks
So, what can help meet a normal dude?
1. Dream of meeting HIM. Be disappointed and don't expect anything
It is very important to live with the idea that somewhere in this vast world there is always HE, with whom you have fun, comfortable, free and cool, like with friends. At the same time, there is no idealization of the world. We all always fall in love with the wrong people, and many girls are more afraid of falling in love than guys. Everything in life comes when you let go. You will be disappointed in everything and stupidly score, you do not expect anything.
Usually the most amazing stories come out when you are not even sure that he will call back after a date.
In general, you just need to believe that one day you will meet someone with whom you can be yourself. Someone who loves your friends. The one with whom next to breathe easily. And if you have already met, he will not let you leave (read: do not let him go for anything). At the same time, a special emphasis is placed on the fact that it is desirable to be disappointed in everything before the cherished meeting and not to wait. Just live, and there, you see, the prince is on the horizon.
2. Visualize
gifphy.com If you don't know where are you going, you might end up somewhere else.
The main idea: in order to find something, you need to clearly know what we are actually looking for. They say that visualization is a really working thing.
So, girls, you need to properly tune in to the right Zen and imagine who you want to be with, what you want in the end from him. You represent all the important qualities of the betrothed, but, most importantly, not from the opposite, that is, without any “not” particles. For example, if you want a tall brunette, ask for a tall brunette, and not "not a blonde of medium height, as long as it is not very short." Only real qualities, without negativity and denial. And then you write all this on a piece of paper and send a message to the Universe, which will definitely not let you down. Yes, she may need some time to find her dream boyfriend. But Moscow, you know, was not built all at once.
Of the important: do not get confused in the testimony, girls! We ask the same thing, we say it out loud, otherwise the Universe will get confused.
Another life hack: sometimes it's good to ask your friends to introduce you to someone, you know, to test the spell. The main thing is not girlfriends: it does not work. It's the guy friends.
3. Don't be afraid to take the first step
It's funny that there are two diametrically opposed opinions on this matter. One friend (married, raising a son) has long been urging everyone and me to score on social conventions and says that in fact, in her life situation, she took the first step, while she does not regret anything. Another girlfriend (not married, no boyfriend) recently came to the conclusion that all her first steps did not lead to anything good.
I do not have a personal record of significant first steps to judge their success. But, I confess, I myself have always been afraid to take the first step. It seemed that if the guy does not do it himself, then, probably, he does not need to. And why should I offer something that he potentially does not need? My mother always told me: “Never ask for anything, everyone will come and give it themselves.” So: they won't.
Girls, maybe you, like me, live with the philosophy of a proud heron, and normal guys don’t even catch up that we might like them?
4. Register already on Tinder
Do not forget that many guys are just as tormented by the question: where to find a normal girl? And as my boyfriend stats show, a lot of the normal dudes sign up for general fun. But what if you are the one with whom not only fun, but also happily ever after?
And so you dreamed, visualized, realized that the first step is not dumb. Come on, act! Forward to the barricades!
And yes, I wouldn’t believe it myself if the number of stories “met on Tinder - happy together for 2, 3, x years” among my own acquaintances did not grow exponentially. Important: Tinder is an example of an easy way to screw up dates. It doesn't matter where you find them, it matters that you go to them at all.
A reasonable question: can something normal come out of dating on the Internet? I will answer with the words of the American uncle of my friend Christina, who recently wrote on my Facebook wall and instantly fell in love with my friends:
It's easy to look for a life partner when you're probably not yet 25 years old. Even at this age, however, there are difficulties. At 30, there are still quite serious chances, because the body is still toned, and the soul is young. Many people think that meeting a man after 40 is a task that cannot be completed. Allegedly, you yourself are already afraid of relationships, you think in stereotypes and do not want to “break” yourself, and there are practically no good unmarried representatives of the stronger sex. On forums on the Internet they write that men of this age mostly lie on the couch with beer and watch TV.
In fact, it's not quite like that. All ages are submissive to love, but people are different. Yes, there are those who are nothing. But there are also 40-year-old dream men. Who is looking for, in general. But let's start with women.
Portrait of a 40 year old single
A woman of this age may fall into one of the following categories:
- Divorced.
- Widow.
- A lady who has not entered into a formal relationship.
Each category is characterized by its own characteristics. Why talk about it in this article? The fact is that if a woman decides to meet someone to create a family or just for friendship, the first step towards the goal will be to work on herself.
Probably the “divorced woman” will be very afraid of relationships, because she had problems in her previous marriage.
If there are children, some concerns will be associated with them:
- How will the new man react to the child?
- Will they get along?
- How will the ex-husband behave?
Typical widow problems are related to the following:
- she will try to look for a young man who is somewhat similar to her husband;
- attempts will constantly be made to forget the former spouse, and this is not easy to do.
The hardest thing is for a woman who has never married. Here you can identify a whole range of fears. Naturally, they must be fought. In extreme cases, you should seek the help of a psychoanalyst.
What unites all these categories of ladies is that they have become accustomed to the routine and everyday life. For example, a younger representative of the fair sex, in case of failure on the love front, is likely to try to quickly find true love and forget about the heartache caused by previous relationships. 40-year-olds begin to concentrate on other things. And this does not contribute to the search for a man.
To "stay in the cage", here are some tips:
- Don't forget to take care of your appearance. Especially by the age of 40, more efforts should be made to this. A well-groomed and pleasant appearance is needed not only to attract men. If you look good, your mood will improve. Positive thinking is the key to success in dating matters.
- Learn to smile.
- Don't forget that you want to meet. It happens that a woman dreams of marriage, but deeds and worries are dragging her out. It seems that here he is - the man of dreams, we need to get acquainted. And in the end, you run past him on "important" matters. Remember that there is nothing more important than personal. Work can wait. Arrange your life.
About men
As for the representatives of the stronger sex, they can also be divided into groups. Among the 40-year-olds there are widowers, single people and those who managed to get divorced, maybe more than once.
The psychology of men of this age can be revealed using the following theses:
- Guys only get better with age.
- more women, and men - a deficit.
Perhaps that is why the stronger sex by the age of 40 begins to make excessive demands on the ladies. But there is nothing illogical in this. However, such beliefs interfere with building normal relationships.
According to many, by the age of 40, without exception, all men are lazy and alcoholics. Is it so? If these reviews were adequate to reality, only women:
- would hold leadership positions in large companies;
- coached by well-known sports clubs;
- resolved political issues;
- engaged in legal representation.
These are just some of the prestigious areas of activity. As we see, the president, for example, is still a man, and among the deputies the stronger sex prevails.
It is believed that decent, rich and successful men are taken apart quickly.
But success in professional activity has nothing to do with personal relationships. A man who knows how to "make money" can get married quickly and file for divorce just as quickly. Financial solvency attracts ladies, and this does not mean at all that it is easy for a millionaire to find his beloved. He just has more choices than others.
Therefore, there are always chances to meet an adequate young man and marry him. Those who see only alcoholics around them, probably, do not communicate with those with whom they need to. You can find a man for a serious relationship after 40 if you look in the right places.
Where to meet
First you need to finally understand who to look for. However, everything here is quite traditional. The man must be:
- Lonely. Married people will not fit, or will not suit everyone.
- Strong, brave, independent.
- Secured.
- Kind.
Based on this, it is already possible to outline some places of acquaintance:
- Gyms and sports activities. These places are suitable for searching for those girls who put physical development in the first place. Guys in such places usually have serious views on a healthy lifestyle. And any lady will not hurt once again to work on her body. You can learn about the degree of freedom of a potential partner in the process. In any case, if people constantly go to the same fitness club, often see each other, they cannot avoid communication.
- If there is an intention to find a person with money, start spinning in an entrepreneurial environment. For a new acquaintance, it is not necessary to open an IP. Now, for example, a lot of business trainings are being held, a sufficient number of interesting men gather in the halls. The main thing is that the event is not allowed for free. Otherwise, there will be all those who have not yet achieved success in life. Paid entry is a good filter. Surely some men at the training will be free, ready for a serious relationship.
- The shops. A single woman over 40 should, of course, not go to the nearest Pyaterochka to get acquainted. And where well-to-do men appear: car dealerships, building materials sales centers, fashionable men's boutiques, etc. There is one old dating scheme in such places: you need to ask a guy for help, saying that you are choosing a gift for your brother or dad. This will serve as an occasion to start communication.
- You can meet people who sell goods and provide services. For example: with a doctor, lawyer, shop owner, etc. Let's take an example: one woman ordered plastic windows. The installers did something wrong. It came to a scandal. As a result, in order to smooth out the conflict, the head of the company came to a meeting with the client. He listened to the woman, personally participated in the elimination of shortcomings. There was some flirting in the process. Then the man found the lady's phone number in the documents, called her and invited her on a date. People lost their loneliness, became a wonderful couple.
Thus, the opinion about forty-year-old alcoholics and parasites, to which we return all the time, does not hold water.
It’s also possible to get to know a good man, whose main quality will be seriousness:
- at work;
- at events with friends and acquaintances;
- in your own house - with a neighbor;
- on vacation.
Some do not advise looking for compatriots for marriage, believing that they are unreliable.
They say it's better to pay attention to foreigners:
- Forty-year-old men who were lucky enough to live in European countries, for example, are sensitive to family values and are looking for wives of the same age, not young girls.
- As a rule, everything is stable with finances. There are areas where the economy is lame. In general, things with wealth are better there than here.
- There is a chance to quickly and very successfully go abroad. Even if there is a divorce in the future, there is an opportunity to stay.
You can get acquainted with foreign citizens on various websites. Registration for women is free. On the Internet, you can find a spouse from your city. Online should be considered: dating sites, social networks, chats.
There is an opinion that on the Internet the chance of finding a man at the stated age is one in a million. But whoever seeks will always find a second spouse or first and only true love. The main thing is to fill out the questionnaire in detail, upload photos and videos, if possible in the service.
The matter remains small: choose interesting men, communicate and meet with them.
Thus, at the age of 40 and at a more mature age, you can find a person to your liking, if you really want it and follow the recommendations in the article.
Why do some women literally bathe in male attention, while others can sit on dating sites for months, but never go on a single real date? Answering this question, psychologists have established that all problems are exclusively in our head. It is not necessary to be a beauty with model parameters in order to drive the members of the opposite sex crazy. In order to find the man of your dreams, it is enough to follow six simple rules.
Let go of the past
The model of relations between a man and a woman is laid in a girl in the family, and if you saw before your eyes a not very good example of your parents, then the chance to simulate the same painful situation again and again, but already in your relationship, increases dramatically. Try to let go of the past and forget about old grievances. Each man is a certain experience, which may not have made you happier, but certainly added wisdom to you.
Decide on a set of qualities that an ideal man should have. For someone it will be a sense of humor, generosity and the ability to meet you halfway in conflict situations. And someone loves athletic men and dreams that he could cook as well as Jamie Oliver. Try to introduce your future partner as carefully as possible. If you like a certain type of appearance, then it will not be shameful to put your favorite actor or performer on the screen saver on your phone. Visualize your dreams, more often imagine how you would like to be courted or where your ideal first date could be. The more clearly you formulate your desires, the sooner the universe will respond to your request.
love yourself
Before saying the phrase “I love you”, learn to say the word “I” - this approach to life really works, because people who do not respect their own individuality and consider themselves mediocre are unlikely to be able to attract the attention of a worthy man who can build a healthy relationship . Learn to accept yourself for who you are. And even if you still can’t do it because of a couple of extra pounds, at least try to start fighting with your complexes and shortcomings. The flaws that you see in yourself, most likely, are only in your subjective opinion. Remember: for every product there is a buyer. Many men, by the way, consider feminine forms to be much more attractive than athletic figures.
Imagine what kind of woman can interest the man of your dreams, and just become her. If you want your future husband to be a top manager of an oil company, while in your wardrobe there is not a single dress, not to mention high-heeled shoes, then count on the potential prince on a white horse when he sees you on the street , will hardly see the woman of his dreams behind the girl in a sports sweatshirt and hair hastily pulled into a ponytail. Be objective: if you want to meet the perfect man, make sure that he cannot pass you by.
Stop living as a "hermit crab", get things that suggest the presence of a man in your life. For example, buy a pair of men's slippers and put them in the hallway - just in case. Or replace the narrow sofa with a full double bed. All this will help create the right energy around you. Allow yourself to think that very soon a person will appear in your life who will need all these things.
Let go of the situation
There is one interesting pattern - as soon as you let go of this or that situation in your life, it resolves itself. And love is no exception. So stop looking in every pretty member of the opposite sex for the one with whom you can spend your whole life. Learn to enjoy flirting and courtship, and once you do that, believe me, the man of your dreams will immediately appear on the horizon.
Any woman or girl dreams of finding a handsome man with whom you can confidently go through life. Indeed, for most female representatives, a guy is a support, protection, friend, and so on. How and where to find a man?
Where to start?
First of all, you should understand yourself, realizing your nature. That is, to understand their preferences, interests and character. Only in this way will a woman be able to understand what kind of man is able to make her happy.
You also need to try to do self-improvement. To do this, it is recommended to attend several trainings that teach this skill. If it is not possible to go to such an event, then you can read the relevant literature. The main thing is not to stop there and try to make your manners more secular, and your behavior ideal. In addition, you need to pay attention to facial expressions, gestures and many other little things that may seem insignificant at first glance.
Psychologist's advice will help to find a man. For example, experts recommend mentally imagining your ideal companion. It is best to make a list on paper of the character traits that you would like to see in a man. You should also think about his appearance, manner of communication and other little things that the girl will seem significant. In addition, it is worth thinking about bad habits and negative qualities, realizing for yourself which of them are acceptable and which are not.
Having made a list, it is recommended to put the pros and cons in front of all character traits. So, the first is put if the girl has this or that quality, the second - if there is no such quality. This ratio will help to understand the difference in characters, as well as tell you where to start improving your own behavior.
The main thing is to think carefully when compiling a list. It is better to spend several weeks writing it than to constantly change something in the future. Acting according to the second option, the girl will never be able to create an ideal image.
Dreams Come True
Do not assume that describing the ideal man is a waste of time. Scientists managed to prove the theory that if you constantly say your dream to yourself, it will certainly come true. However, it should be borne in mind that the image of a man must be made sincerely, without being guided by the opinions of other people. Only left alone with her desires, a woman will be able to recreate her cherished dream.
If the description is drawn up in accordance with any accepted norms or on the advice of loved ones, then most likely the girl will be disappointed. After all, every day people impose their desires and ideas on each other, completely dissolving their "I" in the general crowd.
In search of happiness, do not forget about your appearance, because it is a considerable guarantee at the beginning of a relationship. It is worth thinking about fitness classes, stop eating unhealthy foods, and so on. Sporty and will bring out the natural beauty of a woman.
Search for a soul mate
Of course, a test from a magazine will not help you find your man. This matter should be approached thoughtfully. When looking for your companion, you need to focus on your own lifestyle and preferences. For example, an intelligent woman leading an active lifestyle will never find happiness with a rustic guy who is full of bad habits. However, a young man should not be completely like a girl, because strong relationships are built on the constant complement of each other. Regular discoveries of new qualities and positive character traits will eventually lead to a harmonious and happy life together.
It doesn't have to be done
How to find the man of your dreams and what not to do in the search process?
Very often, a woman who fiercely wants to get a man completely overshadows her mind. In search of her betrothed, the girl resorts to extreme measures, making a bunch of mistakes and only pushing away the representatives of the stronger sex. How to find the man of your dreams and what not to do during the search?
First of all, you should forget about dubious ways to attract a young man. We are talking about visiting magical salons and folk witches who promise to find a life partner in a short period of time. Also, you should not try to bewitch or hypnotize the man you like on your own - this will not lead to anything good. Firstly, the young man will simply get scared or think that something is wrong with the girl. Secondly, such unprofessional actions can lead to more serious problems.
In addition, turning to pseudo-fortune-tellers costs a lot of money, but in most cases, desperate girls end up with charlatans who only care about profit. Frequent appeal to such "sorcerers" will lead to a breakdown and disappointment, because the promise to meet a decent man in the near future will most likely never come true.
Thinking about how to find your man, you should not stare at married guys. Even if a person likes you a lot, you can’t take him away from their families, especially if there are children in it. Whatever feelings flare up between two people, they will still go out, and a man who has committed adultery once will repeat it again. Moreover, a woman who has destroyed someone else's life can attract misfortune, which in any case will return to her like a boomerang.
You can not treat a man too fanatically, almost deifying him. By such actions, the girl loses spiritual values, mentally putting the young man above all that is holy. It is believed that such behavior will not be successful, and the man will soon leave the woman, breaking her heart.
In no case should you resort to "dirty" methods. In this case, it refers to attempts at blackmail (it happens that a girl, having invented an ugly story that can darken the reputation of a man, tries to keep the young man near her, threatening to tell everyone her fable). This also includes lies, for example, very often women invent a fairy tale about pregnancy so that the representative of the stronger sex does not go anywhere. Just don't assume that young people are much dumber than girls. The deception will soon be revealed, and the relationship will be ruined forever. No need to try to drag a young man into bed on the first date, thinking that after that he will not go anywhere. In most cases, everything turns out the other way around - taking advantage of the easy accessibility of a young lady, a man will leave her and start looking for a devoted and decent woman for a serious relationship.
In general, it’s not in vain that the saying goes among the people: “You won’t be forced to be nice.” If women listened to her more often, then their personal life would be much calmer and happier.
Looking for a man right, or What methods are meaningless?
1. No need to believe that happiness will find its own way. A meaningless existence and life with the flow will leave the girl alone. The prince himself will not ride on a white horse, as is told in all the fairy tales that their parents read to the girls. A girl who does not take any action in search of her other half will remain alone until old age.
2. No need to feel sorry for yourself and suffer. Very often, a desperate woman drives herself into depression and begins to kill herself about the senseless years lived. Everyday experiences are reflected in the behavior and appearance of the girl, making her unattractive and dull.
3. Desiring change, but being afraid of everything new is completely absurd. When a girl every day talks about drastic changes, but at the same time leads her usual lifestyle, a young man will never appear. In order for pleasant events to appear in life, you need to try for a long time and go towards your goal. The main thing is not to be afraid to try something new, communicate, get to know each other and try to always be in a good mood.
4. Before trying to get acquainted with a solid and handsome man, you need to put your appearance and inner world in order. A stately young man will not pay attention to an untidy girl with whom there is nothing to talk about. So, first of all, you should do self-improvement in order to match the male representative you like.
Where to find a man who will become a life partner? Naturally, in order to meet an interesting young man, you need to visit various institutions. However, in this case, you need to take into account your age and the age of the man you would like to meet.
Looking for a man: where to go to meet the guy of your dreams?
The most banal way to get to know a young man is to meet him among mutual acquaintances or friends. This option is the simplest, and therefore common. Moreover, acquaintance through friends is safer. After all, you can ask your friends about the guy you like, thereby saving yourself and your time, if the representative of the stronger sex is the complete opposite of the ideal.
When friends do not plan any parties, it is recommended to arrange your own. It is not necessary to organize a feast. It will be enough to call your friends to play board games or just have fun. At the same time, friends can be asked to come not alone, but with their acquaintances.
Online dating
Is it possible to meet online? Yes, this is the easiest way to meet. However, on the World Wide Web, you need to be careful when looking for a young man. After all, the monitor cannot convey the character of the guy. Yes, and in many cases it is not possible to see the appearance, because instead of a real photo, many install pictures or images of celebrities.
How to find your man on the Internet? Having decided all the same to get acquainted through the Internet, you need to go to a site with a relevant topic. On it, a woman will be asked to fill out a questionnaire in which she should describe herself as clearly as possible. To make the answers interesting for men, when filling out, it is recommended to seek help from a male friend. Thus, the real facts from the girl’s personal life will be presented in an interesting light for guys.
Courses
Where to find Another way to find your life partner is to attend any courses or educational institutions. So, if a girl studies at some university or institute, she should take a closer look at the young people who surround her. This group of institutions includes driving schools, dance lessons and language courses. By the way, the last place is the most successful. Since young people attending foreign language courses, in most cases, already clearly know their position in life and have planned their future life.
If a girl is looking for an athletic young man, then she should enroll in fitness or surf training courses. In these places, a lot of beefy guys with beautiful cubes on the press.
The main thing, choosing a lesson for yourself, is to choose one that will be interesting. In this case, it will be easier for a girl to navigate her studies, and if a young man speaks to her, then at least one common topic is provided.
Public Very many people like to play bowling or billiards at their leisure. Therefore, a girl who wants to find her happiness can safely go to one of these places. If a girl is well versed in these games, it will definitely attract the attention of young people. Not so often there is a representative of the weaker sex, who over and over again knocks out a strike or one whose accuracy allows you to drive all the balls into the pockets. If the girl does not have experience in these two games, this may be the reason for dating. It is unlikely that the guy will be able to resist the request of a cute charmer who asks to teach her how to play. Moreover, in this case, the young man has a great opportunity to show his skills, and few people refuse this.
Forums or online games
Of course, this item could be attributed to online dating, but in this case, you should act a little differently.
How to find your man on the forum? You need to choose your topic carefully. For example, on a forum on how to crochet, it is unlikely that you will be able to meet at least one young man. But a lot of men are going to talk about the automotive topic. The main thing is that the girl herself should not lose face in this difficult topic. Before you start writing something, it is recommended to read a little information on this issue. So the girl will have much more chances to interest the young man.
The same goes for online games, because they are all dedicated to different topics. You should not look for a boyfriend in very violent games. Since such entertainment will surely seem too gloomy to girls. Another thing is various simulators in which a woman can easily navigate. In addition to the game process, be sure to share your thoughts in the general chat, which is visible to all other players.
Night clubs
How to find your man in a nightclub? In these establishments there is always a cheerful atmosphere conducive to acquaintance. A cheerful, incendiary dance can be an excellent occasion to start a conversation in the future. If the young man himself took the initiative and invited the girl, then we can assume that half the battle is done. The main thing is not to forget about manners and behave with dignity, so that the guy is as interested as possible in further communication.
Where to find a grown man?
How to find your man at 40? Representatives of the stronger sex, who have already celebrated their fortieth anniversary, are much less interested in online games or similar entertainment. They also very rarely visit nightclubs and bowling alleys.
If you are interested in dating serious men, then you should start looking for them at various banquets and similar events. To get to such a party and make a positive impression there, you should definitely prepare carefully. Everything should be perfect: hair, makeup, clothes and even small accessories that complement the overall look. Good taste and excellent manners are guaranteed to interest the stronger sex.
Where to find a young man? You can try to talk to him in a traffic jam. Light flirting will be much better than nervous anticipation. Who knows, maybe the conversation will turn out so interesting that you want to continue it in the future.
You can also try your luck at the airport or train station. A tiring wait, a flight or a long trip brings people together. They begin to communicate, it turns out that a man and a woman have a lot in common, they are interested together, and so on. The main thing is to try not to touch on too personal topics during a conversation, otherwise fellow travelers will remain fellow travelers who will never meet each other again.
A good option is the wedding of friends. There is always a romantic atmosphere at this holiday, conducive to the beginning of a casual conversation. Moreover, it will be possible to find out about the gentleman you like from mutual friends.
If a woman works in a respectable place, then she should look around. Especially if men are employees of banks, large offices or companies. Choosing her soul mate among such an environment, a girl can be sure that her future companion will be reliable and stable.
Women who are thinking about how to find their man should remember that such representatives of the stronger sex have already lived half their lives. Therefore, they are much wiser and more reasonable than twenty-year-old young people.
Where not to look for a young man?
At a car dealership. Firstly, with a serious purchase, any person is very focused. Therefore, if you start a conversation with him, a man may simply not pay attention or even be rude. Secondly, in our time, it is a mistake to assume that a guy in an expensive car is rich. In most cases, cars are bought on credit. So it will not be possible to identify the financial situation by this factor.
Group tours are also not suitable for dating. do not like to attend such events. So, most likely, in the group of tourists there will be almost only women with the same problems. It is better to buy a ticket to the resort, where the probability of meeting an interesting man increases several times.
Conclusion
Now you know how to find your own. No matter which method is chosen, the main thing to remember is that in order to find your happiness, you cannot do nothing!